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Does Googling OW count as a strike!

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AStar ( member #39971) posted at 7:45 PM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013

It's a strike.

AP needs to have no part in his life.

Interest in OW is a bad sign: you are fully justified in your response.

Me BS (41)
Him WH (45). EA and possible PA (denied)
D Day 7/21/2013
M 8 years - filing for D

**The cruelest lies are often told in silence- Robert Louis Stevenson

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HurtButHopeful? ( member #25144) posted at 7:52 PM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013

((((MedicGal))))

You did the right thing. Not only did he break NC by Googling, but then he tried to hide the evidence. He got caught only because he wasn't thorough enough.

Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley

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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 7:57 PM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013

MedicGal,

I an understand - after all that time, the AP is still on their minds, and they try to secretly Google them thinking that they won't be caught. Then when they get caught, it's just bullshit. Sounds like affair behavior to me, another violation of trust. Good for you for taking a stand. If you hadn't caught him, he never would of told you. Yep, sounds familiar.

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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