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Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 2:21 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
I'm staying. I really like it here; it's very close to where I grew up-in the summers. I've always wanted to live here.
Another relief is not working the hours they expected--but neglected to tell me about. 9am-6pm with no lunch break--you eat at your desk. And 10 months out of the year I'd be working Saturdays too. Jeez.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 2:21 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
Yikes. What a bunch of jagoff s.
I'll send corgi mojo!
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 2:23 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:25 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
oh Sad 
I'm so sorry.
I'm so upset for you. You deserve better than this.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 2:27 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
Thank you. Despite what they said, I really am a good office manager. I'll never be a sparkler, but I'm great with back office stuff.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 3:49 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
Insane. Total insanity.
I'm so very sorry.
(((Sad)))
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 3:53 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
Wow !!
After you moving and they act like this !!
I hope you get a job with their competition. 
Then help new company increase sales 100% in a year.
I have no idea what field they're in but if anyone needs a karma stop, it's them. 
Hugs and mojo for fast employment !
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 3:54 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
Can you file for unemployment?
Craziness.
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
feelsgaslighted ( member #19290) posted at 3:57 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
I am sorry you had to deal with people like that :( Sending mojo your way!
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 3:58 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
Wow. They sound NUTS!!
(((sad)))
Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 3:59 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
WOW. I'm just floored. 
What asshats.
I can tell you, though, after spending nearly 5 years working for someone that will NEVER be pleased myself, I agree with the other poster that said they did you a favor. 5 years of this shit put me in a VERY bad emotional place. I truly wouldn't want that for you.
Hugs and MOJO coming for you to find a FANTASTIC opportunity and they can just F-off. 
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
hurtbs ( member #10866) posted at 4:01 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
So sorry Sad. That sucks.
Me - 40 something. WXH DDay 2006, Divorced 2012
WBF DDay #1 9/2022 #2 11/2022
Single
Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 4:12 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
Sending you better job quick mojo. That does suck. It would be worse if you ended up with heart, lung or brain damage from the carbon monoxide. All real possibilities of carbon monoxide poisoning long term. I am glad you like the area.
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
jadedangel ( member #26979) posted at 4:13 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
How can they not allow you a lunch break? Sure, eating at your desk is not denying you a meal but it is not a break.
Divorced 2007.
EXWH died 2011
Remarried 2018!
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 4:27 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
That is craziness!!! I'm so sorry lady - you deserve better, but I will say, although it's far from ideal, they are obviously not a good fit for you, or well, for any sane person! ((Hugs)) Something will come up soon!
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 4:36 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
silverhopes ( member #32753) posted at 4:50 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
(((((Sad))))) I'm so sorry. It sounds like they weren't treating you well. Hopefully this means that a door is opening to meet much nicer people who appreciate the hard work you do. 
Aut viam inveniam aut faciam.
willow60 ( member #17243) posted at 5:08 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
So sorry, Sad
I hope you quickly find a wonderful employer that deserves you!
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele
yewtree ( member #16671) posted at 5:49 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
I'm sorry they treated you so badly. You are better off! Here's to your next new beginning!
Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)
Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 - No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 11:56 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
So sorry. Do you have grounds for any legal action? Did you get a severance at all or did they just turn you loose? I thought there were laws prohibiting stuff like this.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
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