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My daughter tried to kill herself

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gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 4:03 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013

I'm so sorry.

{{{hugs}}} and prayers....

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

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Jennifer99 ( member #39551) posted at 4:09 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013

Thinking of you and your daughter

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sunandmoon ( member #10180) posted at 4:55 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013

(((nerkorb)))

(((nerkorn DD)))

Prayers for her recovery and your family's healing.

sunandmoon

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peridot ( member #18334) posted at 5:02 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013

Will keep you in my prayers.

I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.

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Exit Wounds ( member #32811) posted at 5:09 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013

((((((((nerkorb & family)))))))

You are in my prayers! Please know that there are many that are praying for you here on this site. Stay strong and know that God is watching over you and your daughter!

Exit WoundsH of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.

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sullymeishadomi ( member #16305) posted at 6:02 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013

((Nerkorb and family)). Sending prayers

Time to be my own bff.

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circe ( member #6687) posted at 6:18 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013

Oh no, I am so sorry and know you must be out of your mind with worry. You and your daughter are in my prayers.

((((hugs))))

Everything I ever let go of has claw marks on it -- Infinite Jest

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jjsr ( member #34353) posted at 7:24 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013

I am sorry.

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.

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woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 8:14 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013

I'm so sorry.

Sending hugs and prayers.

In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson

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JanetS ( member #2766) posted at 8:17 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013

How sad this is? It is lovely that she was unsuccessful, and is here to receive the helps that she needs.

Teen years are tough. Bullying, self-esteem issues, eating disorders, it's tough.

Just love her like crazy and avail her to every available service you can find for her.

You are in my prayers.

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h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 8:17 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013

I'm so sorry, nekorb. I'm so glad she was found. I hope she gets the help she so desperately needs now.

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weeping willow ( member #22800) posted at 8:28 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013

nekorb, from deep within my heart, I am praying for your daughter, you and your family. My heart is breaking for all of you.

I realize that you probably feel like there is nothing fortunate about this. I understand that, really, I do. However, your daughter is in an inpatient facility now. She has the opportunity to get the help she needs and deserves. She has the opportunity to go on with her life and thrive, with your love and the proper counseling.

25 years ago, my son was 15 years old when he took his own life. There were no signs...nothing. I came home from work to find him. It was too late. I wish I would have had the opportunity to get him the help he needed. I just didn't know he needed help. Had I known, maybe today he would be a 41 year old man with a wife and children.

Your daugher is alive, thank God. I wish all of you the best.

(((((nekorb, nekorb's daughter & family)))))

[This message edited by weeping willow at 2:33 PM, September 4th (Wednesday)]

BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 40 years


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painpaingoaway ( member #27196) posted at 8:39 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013

25 years ago, my son was 15 years old when he took his own life.

I'm so sorry weepingwillow. I didn't know. ((((Weeping willow))))


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meaniemouse ( member #10798) posted at 8:48 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013

nekorb--So very sorry for your pain and prayers for your daughter and the rest of your family.

(((weeping willow)))

Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

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sad12008 ( member #18179) posted at 11:28 PM on Wednesday, September 4th, 2013

(((nekorb, DD, & family)))

There aren't good words when something so huge, scary, and traumatic happens. It's worse when it's your child. Just know you're not alone, that others are pulling for you and your daughter.

I hope she's in a good facility with a good therapist able to connect with her and help her out. When darkness calls, it can sing a siren's song. Just know it's not because of you, or that you've somehow failed this child. I don't know the background story but I do know depression only too well. Very scary times for you and yours. I'm holding you all in my heart and am hoping for brighter days ahead.

You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

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cayc ( member #21964) posted at 12:33 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013

(((nekorb)))

I'm so sorry.

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click4it ( member #209) posted at 12:35 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013

(((nekrob)))

I'm so sorry. I am glad she is ok and will be getting some help. My heart goes out to you, I can imagine how horrified and scared you must feel.

Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?

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damncutekitty ( member #5929) posted at 12:39 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013

I was 17 when I made my first of 3 suicide attempts. I also lost my younger brother to suicide in 2009. So I know this very special pain from both angles.

Feel free to PM me if you want to talk.

12/18/15 found out my now EX boyfriend was trolling CL for underage girls. From the cops. The fun never stops.

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hurting2much ( member #25643) posted at 1:24 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013

(((nekrob))); so very sorry.

Divorced

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 nekorb (original poster member #40306) posted at 3:27 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013

Thank you everyone.

It helps to know you all are out there somewhere thinking of us and sending thoughts and prayers.

Trying to adjust to the new reality of things right now.

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

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