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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 5:01 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
Sending prayers for your daughter and those that love her.
Hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 8:26 PM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
(((To you and your daughter)))
Please know that kids often lack the ability to understand the finality of it. This makes it even more dangerous. Hopefully she remembers enough the awful parts to wake her up. In addition make sure she gets all the supports in place before she leaves the hospital. Meaning therapists, psychiatrists, group therapies etc. Make sure school knows, and she gets an IEP for this. You want all the resources opened up to you.
((((and strength)))))
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 8:26 PM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
(((To you and your daughter)))
Please know that kids often lack the ability to understand the finality of it. This makes it even more dangerous. Hopefully she remembers enough the awful parts to wake her up. In addition make sure she gets all the supports in place before she leaves the hospital. Meaning therapists, psychiatrists, group therapies etc. Make sure school knows, and she gets an IEP for this. You want all the resources opened up to you.
((((and strength)))))
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 8:37 PM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
Thinking of you and your family. Sending you all strength and light. ((((nekorb family))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
damncutekitty ( member #5929) posted at 11:09 PM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
Visit as often as you can. If she's allowed to have some of her own things (clothes, toiletries, etc) make sure she has them.
When I was inpatient the staff at the hospital just assumed the I and my family knew the drill. On everything. Nobody told me I could have my own clothes (except a bra). Nobody told me my family could bring me shampoo and deodorant, and not only that none of the staff told me where the hospitals stash of toiletries was kept. I didn't even get brush my teeth for 2 days! It was very frustrating.
12/18/15 found out my now EX boyfriend was trolling CL for underage girls. From the cops. The fun never stops.
joeboo ( member #31089) posted at 1:32 AM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
I wish you and your family much needed peace.
Crushed1 ( member #6449) posted at 4:45 AM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
((((Nekorb,DD,family)))) I'm so sorry. Praying for your DD and family.
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH
harrypotter ( member #39526) posted at 5:33 AM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
My thoughts and prays with your daughter and family.
WS-Me
BS-Her (Lostinthismess)
Amber13 ( member #40505) posted at 10:31 PM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
I'm so sorry. I hope you will all be okay.
I put my mother through this when I was very young. Being a mother now I cant comprehend the pain I must have put her through. Im trying to ease my guilt by being a better daughter now.
Best wishes xxx
Dreamland ( member #40488) posted at 10:59 PM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
Sending love and peace ..
So sorry I have a 17 yr old DD.. Be there just be there and let her know no matter what she is a blessing. I feel for you all ...
Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore
uncertainone ( member #28108) posted at 6:41 PM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013
Wishing you strength and peace.
Me: 37
'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 7:16 PM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013
sending you my thoughts and best wishes for a speedy recovery for your daughter.
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 7:26 PM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013
Oh sweetie! I keep waiting to get that call about my aspie son.
I am holding you and your family (and PPGA and WW too!) in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so very sorry.
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
Must Survive ( member #34533) posted at 9:23 PM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013
nekorb
(((hugs)))
Please do everything you can now for your daughter. Don't let anyone tell you to wait for anything.
When they turn 18, you lose control over what you can and can't do for them.
Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:42 PM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
(((nekorb, dd, family)))
I'm so glad your daughter was found in time to give her another chance.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 7:08 AM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
(((Nekorb, dd and family)))
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 7:12 AM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
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