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Phoenix9572 (original poster member #39987) posted at 8:45 PM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
My ever controlling SAWH just sent me the petititon for legal separation that he filed. I can not get in to the attorney that I want until Monday and he had to go and do it. I am so frustrated at him trying to control everything, even our F'n divorce!!!!!! I just wish there was soemthing I could do to knock him off balance just enough so he would know that he doesn't get to call all the shots. I thought he might have gotten that hint when I threw his butt out last week. Gosh I want to take him down a peg or two!!!
Me - 40
WH - 42
Married 18 years
kids - 14, 12
DD - May 13, 2013
DD2 - Aug 4, 2013
DD3 - Aug 27, 2013
Status - Legally separated; really wanted R but don't think that is possible anymore
Tearsoflove ( member #8271) posted at 9:00 PM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
You could always go straight for divorce unless legal separation is a requirement in your state.
"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 9:03 PM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
I agree with Tearsoflove. You can trump his "control" by going straight to divorce if that is an option for you. He certainly won't see THAT coming!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 11:38 PM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
I'd get a Rottweiler for an attorney and give the command to go for blood.
Let the separation cost him!
Hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
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