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Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 1:09 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
DIL was just admitted to the hospital. She's going on 5 months pregnant and is very sick, can't keep anything down. I'm operating under the assumption that she has a virus, they'll give her IV fluids and plenty of rest, and she'll recover just fine.
My heart is hurting for DS, though. He's so worried. There's something to be said for living close to family 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:12 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
((((dil & ds))))
Sending it all, Sad. Including hugs for you, too. ((((hugs))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 1:21 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
(((DIL, DS, & Sad)))
Sending mojo, good thoughts, and prayers.
tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 1:26 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
(((Sad & Family)))
Sending lots of good thoughts your way.
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 1:33 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 1:34 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 1:40 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 2:36 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
Sending lots of (((hugs))) and mojo. I hope she gets better soon and that the baby is fine
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
sad12008 ( member #18179) posted at 3:12 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
Hope all's well, Sad! You, your DIL, and your DS will be in my thoughts. Lots of mojo that she's got something that's a quick & easy fix, and that the rest of her pregnancy is easy.
You can't fill a cup with no bottom.
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:20 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
((Sad and fam)) Sending mojo and lots of positive thoughts!
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 3:20 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
willow60 ( member #17243) posted at 3:27 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
Lots of mojo for DIL, DS & Sad...
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele
cinnamongurl ( member #37879) posted at 3:35 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
Sending strength and light to you and your family sad.
Me:FWS 42 He: FBS 43 and my heart
Together 22 years. We survived infidelity. "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos
CG
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 3:50 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
Oh man, that's harsh. Sending lots of mojo for a quick recovery.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
click4it ( member #209) posted at 8:15 AM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 12:18 PM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
Thank you. She's still in the hospital. DS said her urine is still dark, so I guess she's not yet rehydrated. I don't know much else.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 1:58 PM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
Will cover all of you in prayer.
((((Sad & Family)))
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
Kodi ( member #16237) posted at 2:09 PM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
soveryweary ( member #32265) posted at 4:24 PM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
Keeping SIL, DIL, you and precious baby in my thoughts.
Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:40 PM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
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