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homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 11:50 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2013
Stay home mom who was bored. She was screwing 3 different married men at the time! Well,,, now she lives with my XWH and she works a week and 1/2 to pay my child support!!! 
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
hobbeskat ( member #38805) posted at 11:52 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2013
One of my closest friends. Sang at my wedding, was at my hen night, we spent Christmas with her and her family and let her stay with us after a bad break up and a spell on drugs.
painpaingoaway ( member #27196) posted at 6:04 PM on Saturday, February 8th, 2014
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 6:18 PM on Saturday, February 8th, 2014
OW was an employee at the Big Box Do It Yourself home improvement store where FWH was a manager.
However, OW was fired from there and has been unemployed since, but is on disability because of a motorcycle accident. < why didn't it just die?
OW is a serial cumdumpster for MM who thinks it has the golden va jay-jay that will be able to lure these MM away from their wives and families and it will get everything the wives have. OW usually "fucks up" (as opposed to "affairing down") in the financial department.
[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 12:19 PM, February 8th (Saturday)]
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
Zayda1 ( member #35387) posted at 6:58 PM on Saturday, February 8th, 2014
At the time of the affair OW was a SAHM to 4 children (one was only 4 months old). Her husband (after finding out about the affair) quit his job to stay home with the kids. She is now separated, only sees her kids 3days a week and is an elementary school teacher.
I hope f'ng my WH was worth the hell she is currently living.
Married 10 years, together for 12 years
2 children (9 years & 6 years)
Discovery of PA 04/15/12 (It only lasted a "couple of weeks" but it still shattered my world.)
WIgirl ( member #40533) posted at 7:39 PM on Saturday, February 8th, 2014
She works for the Department of State, a fucking diplomat. Aspires to be an Ambassador some day.
Me: 39 yo BW
Him: 41 yo WH
2 daughters (9, 6); married 16 yrs
DD: 6/2/13 (5 mo EA/PA with coworker)
Divorced 7/17/15
Lowlow ( member #38653) posted at 7:52 PM on Saturday, February 8th, 2014
Me (BS) 41 Him (FWS) 42 at time of confession
Reconciling
Fireflies ( member #40210) posted at 8:49 PM on Saturday, February 8th, 2014
All hood rat, ratchet, gutter pigs he met while working - he's employed as cop but clearly just a hood rat, gutter pig himself.
OW1 - 30's, chronically unemployed, 2 young kids, looks like an inmate from a women's prison complete with giant jail house tattoo smack in the middle of her tits. She used to do custody exchanges with one of her baby daddy's at WH's precinct.
OW2 - 30's, unemployed druggie, baby daddy is in jail for drug dealing, fancies her herself a "model", and by model I mean posting pics of herself online making her "hold up, I'm taking a dump" face. He picked her up while working an election detail.
OW3 - 40's, mother of an adult child, meter maid, she was working in his area when he picked her up. I use the female pronouns loosely as I'm not convinced "she" is a natural born woman and looks just like my cousin Paul in drag.
OW4 - 30's, married with a kid, met her while she was hanging out in his precinct. This is an area you only hang out in if you're up to no good. They only texted for a few weeks, so I don't know too much else about her.
OW5 - see description of OW4, except not married and no kids. She's a pothead, as smoking pot was the topic of 90% of their texts.
Me: BS
Him: WS
Go your way,
I'll take the long way 'round,
I'll find my own way down,
As I should.
LiedtoLucy ( member #39246) posted at 8:56 PM on Saturday, February 8th, 2014
Divorced co-worker with two kids. She got fired from the hospital they worked together in for thumbing through a porn magazine with a patient and discussing the pictures with him. How disgusting is that?
LTL
Me: BS
Him: WH
OW=Single Coworker
OW had a baby. We do not know if my H is the father.
DDay: 4/23/13
Together: 16 years
Married: 12
Kids: 3 beautiful boys. Ages: 11, 6, 3
Limbo 2 + years after dday
Trying2Survive1 ( member #40022) posted at 9:06 PM on Saturday, February 8th, 2014
Mine - Christian minister
His - escort he picked up in a bar (he says he didn't know she was a whore)
Rolls eyes 
Madhatters, M 37yrs, many DDays
Both 60's, he now has stage 4 bladder cancer and in remission.
We're in solid R, there is hope!
Stop right there: I already don’t give a fuck ~ ty Greeneyesbluezy
BryanP37 ( member #39685) posted at 9:40 PM on Saturday, February 8th, 2014
OM #1-A 19 year old motor pool Airman while I was deployed to the Far East in the USAF. Would have seriously hit the fan if they had been caught.
OM #2-A coworker at the middle school she taught at. That one was outed, but I didn't find out until years later. I now know why she left that school district after only one school year.
Both of these occurred in the first 3 years of our marriage. I found out about them on DDay for OM #3.
OM #3 was a IT Service Tech for a computer services company. He also was her best friends husband and a friendly acquaintance of mine.
This was enough for me to cut her loose immediately. Her best friend took her husband back and are attempting R.
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BS: Me-47XWS: Her-w/b 42Married 7 yrs, together 9 years-No kidsEx had 4 month PA with her BFF's husband. Other flings confessed during discovery. On a road to a successful R after divorce but lymphoma took her before we were able to remarry.
marionwendy ( member #41303) posted at 9:57 PM on Saturday, February 8th, 2014
My WH AP was a bar slut MOW with 2 teenage boys and she cleaned houses for a living! What a bloody joke!
BS-52
WS-53
Married-25
Together-25
Children-2
Life is not measured by the breaths we take
but by the moments that take our breath away.
whiteflower99 ( member #13937) posted at 10:58 PM on Saturday, February 8th, 2014
OW1 unemployed
OW2 bar manager for corporate chain of restaurants
OW3 waitress
OW4 unemployed "actress" 
OW5 unemployed client of his
OW6 some type of sales
OW7 student and single SAHM
OW8 unemployed
OW9 personal trainer
What are you pretending not to know?
me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way.
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 11:05 PM on Saturday, February 8th, 2014
SAHM who used to be my friend. She worked p/t on and off as a barista or a retail sales clerk.
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Gman1 ( member #40879) posted at 12:45 AM on Sunday, February 9th, 2014
OM works shift work on assembly line for Intel Corp.
kellys2014 ( new member #42306) posted at 12:59 AM on Sunday, February 9th, 2014
She is a 24 year old college student (having recently returned to school) and part-time nanny-slash-model. She used to work at summer camps. She comes across as vivacious and wholesome, but is a damaged, heartless, narcissist. 
Me: 36
WH: 44
DS: 7
DD: 5
His AP: 24, former family friend and babysitter
Married 11 1/2 yrs
D-Day: 2/1/2014 3 month PA, 24 months sexting
gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 1:59 AM on Sunday, February 9th, 2014
Marketing rep who used to date a friend of ours. We used to socialize with them, though I wouldn't say I ever considered her a "friend".
She also did some time in jail for embezzling from a former employer. She's two years older than me and XWH.
What a class act.
Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 2:37 AM on Sunday, February 9th, 2014
Major Department Store department manager. She started in high school, no college, worked her way up. From the investigation of my P.I., she did a lot of 'sleeping her way to the top' too. She also had two different affairs with 'boy toys' who worked for her. She was twice the age of her boy toys when she hooked up with my H.
She still has her same job.
"Because I deserve better"
sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 2:57 AM on Sunday, February 9th, 2014
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
CantLoseHope ( member #42356) posted at 3:02 AM on Sunday, February 9th, 2014
The OW with zero morals is a middle school teacher, teaches writing.... maybe next we will see her on the news as one of those teachers who seduces one of her students... DISGUSTING!
Good to know these are the types of people teaching our children huh?
"A tree falls the way it leans.....be careful which way you lean"
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