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nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 3:39 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
You have got to be fucking kidding me.
Today? Today of all fucking days?
Today - mere minutes after we discuss the crisis state that DD is in?
Today - while I am about to drive across the state to sit at my mother's deathbed?
Today - moments after you offer me your condolences?
You pick TODAY, when I am standing, bereft, at the apex of a mountain of grief, fear, exhaustion, and anxiety - this EXACT FUCKING MOMENT is when you choose to attack me over something in our settlement agreement? The settlement agreement that was signed, notarized, filed, and finalized almost TWO FUCKING YEARS AGO???
What the actual fuck???
Fuck you. Fuck your condolences. Fuck your concern about the equity of the fucking debt distribution that you FUCKING AGREED TO AND IS FUCKING FINAL. Fuck you raising your fucking voice to me when I dare disagree with you. Fuck your stupid fucking smirking face. Fuck EVERY FUCKING THING ABOUT YOU.
Un. Fucking. Believable.
You have no idea how close to the edge I am, asshole. You have no fucking idea how lucky you are that I was able to hold myself back from that edge today.
Fuck off.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 3:43 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
(((NIK))) Not only will I hold your earrings, I'll lend you my baseball bat. After I get in a few swings of my own.
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 3:46 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
((((((NIK))))))))
Fuck that guy.
Sending love and positive energy your way.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 3:48 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
cayc ( member #21964) posted at 3:54 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 3:58 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Dear NIK,
He is scum on the bottoms of our collective kitten heels. He is a waste of oxygen in our world. His issues surrounding the dissolution of debt are as invalid as his very existence in your life. May he rot in the bowels of the rats who infest satan's basement.
I am so sorry to hear about your mom. Please do not give him one more speck of your time. I'm sorry he is just a POS after all, but that's not telling you anything you didn't already know.
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
*****************************
Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 3:59 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
(((NIK))) He has no class at all.
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 3:59 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
(((((NIK)))))
I am so sorry you are going through so much right now. 
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 4:03 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Fuck him.
If you're standing at the edge, that means he is, too. Step aside, sister, so I can push him over. We'll watch him fall. And we'll laugh.
Prick.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Feeling Consumed ( member #30592) posted at 4:08 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Sounds like it's an impossible task for him to think beyond his own fucking nose. He should be crowned king of narcissists!
Sorry about your Mom. ((((NIK))))
Spent half my life with an Ahole
D final!!! 11-11
"Obladi oblada life goes on...."
jackie89 ( member #38271) posted at 4:16 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 4:20 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Once a dick, always a dick!
Fuck.That.Guy!!
And may the earth open up and swallow him whole. The world could use one less asshole!
((NIK))
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Housefulloflove ( member #38458) posted at 4:33 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
I'm so sorry NIK!
When a narcissistic asshole knows you are down it's time to brace for the kicks. If they aren't the cause of the pain they want to make sure you're thinking about their pain (since theirs is more important of course.)
Ignore him and focus on what is important while he continues his delusion of being of any significance.
Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013
Celticlass ( member #39518) posted at 4:40 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
(((NIK))) After you and innconu get done with the baseball bat, I'll drive the getaway car to someplace fabulous for celebratory drinks!! 
On a serious note, I'm so sorry you are going through this. Go and spend time with your mom, focus your energies where they can do the most good; providing comfort and support for your mom.
Besides, you can kick his ass any old time you want to!
(((NIK's mom)))
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 4:43 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Wow. How awful, and hurtful, that must have been for you. I'm so sorry.
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 4:44 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Here's your gif. I hope it works.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 4:53 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
I'm so sorry for all you're going through, NIK. These arseholes have a real gift when it comes to knowing when to twist the knife.
Fuck him!
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 4:57 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Ah a true narcissistic sociopath. It's ALL about him. Jackwagon.
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
JessicaFL127 ( member #26864) posted at 5:55 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
Ugh. What a fuckface. I would absolutely hold your earrings and mysteriously see nothing.....
I'm sorry about your mom. 
BW,35
divorced for 10 years
Happily remarried to a much better choice.:D
mom to two awesome boys,14 and 13
And now to a beautiful baby girl, 1 <3
"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 6:13 AM on Sunday, October 27th, 2013
(((((((NIK))))))))
Your focus wasn't on him, he had to change that. Sorry he is pushing your buttons.
More hugs and prayers headed your way
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
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