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I am curious how many people have had experience with wh or ww meeting people on AM. My wh met someone he slept with twice. We are in R. Just wondering if anyone else had experienced this too.

My H had a profile on it. But never met with anyone. He decided it was unsafe. The safer option would be an escort.

There is a BH named Tred who's ww had and affair with someone she met on Ashley Madison. He is usually pretty active here at SI.

I am one of the Ashley Madison group (along with Tred; I believe that we are the co-chairs of the group ). That's where my ex found his AP. If you have more specific questions, feel free to PM me.

[This message edited by tryingagain74 at 8:56 PM, December 20th (Friday)]

My WH met someone on there and developed an 18 month A with her. Yeah, I'm not a big fan of Ashley Madison. I had never even heard of it before dday. I was appalled that such a site even existed, much less sick people that would actually go there! Unreal.

A local talk radio station here plays commercials for it. We used to go to sleep to that station... Now... It makes me want to throw the damn radio across the room. We don't listen to station at all now.

The first time they had a commercial for it, it was about 6 or 7 weeks after dday1. We had a tornado warning, so we were stuck in the basement. That radio station is the GO TO for storm coverage. So, there I am, trapped in the basement, with two terrified kids, 2 even more terrified cats, and myWH who had recently said nasty things about his "boring vanilla wife" on his AM profile, when the commercial came on, he and I just FROZE. That was no kind of fun. I can't even imagine why they would think that was a good time to advertise a married cheating site.

My H did not go to AM but instead went to craigslist for prostitutes. I am so dumb. I thought craigslist was for selling stuff and what not. Hey, I guess prostitution is selling stuff!

Another Ashley Madison BS here. A couple of weeks after Dday I created a fake account to see if wh still had a profile up. I had over a hundred notices in my inbox in under two days!! It's a sick, scary place.

Hopeful,

My wife was on AM for 20 months, had a 17 month PA/EA affair with one and had numerous (6 or 7, who knows) EA's, and chatted with too many to tell. She was really into the validation. She knew she'd meet tons of men because one of her BFF's was on there and told her that she'd be mobbed if she signed up. All betrayal sucks. This is just our flavor of shit. It's tough.

I am unfortunately in this group. My WH met his whore and had 2.5 year A. He took down profile when she asked him to. I hate that site.

Well, I made up a fake profile on AM after my gross husband got caught and admitted ONS w/ prostitute. So I figured if he was into anonymous sex, maybe he'd be looking for free anonymous sex, I better check if I could find him on AM.

Seriously, within hours my mailbox was filled with possible hook-ups. For days this went on, and no matter how many times I clicked *cancel*, they kept coming. And they pretty much all seemed creepy and skeevy. I finally wrote to AM and claimed I was going to call the police if they didn't *let me go* (I claimed an under age child in my home had signed up). I'm off their list, but it is really pretty frightening how many creeps there are on that site.

Sorry Hopeful, I'm no help...Craigslist here too.

Which I would like to clarify, is where people try to get rid of useless crap that was never of any real value to the original owner anyway.

Yep, my WH was on this site. He was trying to meet more women to sleep with. Guess he didn't get enough from adultfriendfinder and craigslist. It sucks.

Xpos was another AM member. Also a member on several porn dating sites. Also trolling CL ads for casual, anonymous sex. One ad there he was interested in was a man looking for men to have sex with his wife so he could watch!

I hadn't heard about this site until a coworker told me she caught her father on it while borrowing his phone! After that, one of my best friends found out his W was using it for affairs. So, I have second hand experience.

My WH was on craigslist.

I signed up for AM a few months after dday. I created a profile, trying to find my WH( I didn't). I had 278 responses in the first 12 hours. It was almost as disgusting as craigslist. I say "almost" because I've spent a lot more time cruising craigslist looking for my husband than I did on AM.

I asked WH WHY he would even think to post there..or place an ad. The whole thing made my skin crawl..I certainly didn't feel turned on.