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nutmegkitty (original poster member #33882) posted at 5:57 PM on Tuesday, April 22nd, 2014
Just confirmed our reservation...I can't wait to see everyone!
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
LifeIsBroken ( member #27071) posted at 1:46 AM on Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014
D-Day: 8/28/2009
BW: 59 @ D-Day XH: 60 @ D-Day Married 34 yrs, LIBerated: 2/17/11
Beyond terror is freedom. (Agnes Martin)
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 2:00 AM on Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014
Have a great time everyone. I can't wait to see the pictures
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
TheRealDeal ( member #39560) posted at 9:19 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
I'm really sorry but I won't be able to attend afterall
Please have a great time everyone; I'll be thinking of all of you!
Me (BS): 47 him (Xws): 55
together 18 years
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March - June 2013
Dday4 + June 2015 through January 2016
Status: done I called it quits 1-6-2016
The hardest part of letting go is realizing there wasn't much left to hold on to
UndecidedinMA ( member #33732) posted at 10:43 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
ME - BSO
Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R
risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 12:21 PM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
See you all soon! Thanks Nutmegkitty for all of your planning.
cryingdaily ( member #7276) posted at 4:02 PM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
Running a little late but I'll be on my way shortly.
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 5:34 PM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
I cant wait to hear about your day!!
I hope you went somewhere you could watch the Bruins!!
Have fun !!
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 5:57 PM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 6:28 PM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
Can't wait to see pics!
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 12:28 AM on Sunday, April 27th, 2014
Looking forward to pics
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 12:39 AM on Sunday, April 27th, 2014
Oh no!!! I don't think anyone took any pictures!
I didn't even think of it, although I probably would not be able to figure out how to post them anyways. I have tried so many times to post the the picture thread and it never works.
I really enjoyed meeting everyone. It was so nice to be in real life with others that "get it" and don't look at you like
.
I also conquered my driving anxiety, 2 hours each way and no panic attacks!
I am ready for the next one.
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 12:55 AM on Sunday, April 27th, 2014
I'm glad you had a good time!
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
nutmegkitty (original poster member #33882) posted at 4:32 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2014
Alas, no pics, but we had a fabulous time. It was so good to meet new folks and see RFA again. We had some great talks and some good laughs, which felt very therapeutic . We were still gabbing when they had to turn the room over to another party so we went and hung out in the bar for another hour or so, just continuing to talk and visit.
Can't accept, I am so proud of you for coming and doing the driving despite your fears. That is so huge.
We will have to do it again soon!!!!
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 2:21 AM on Monday, April 28th, 2014
It was a wonderful time. The 5 of us understood what it feels like to survive a living hell and still be able to laugh out-loud together. It was an amazing experience! We were all in different stages of the process of healing. I hope everyone felt supported.
Thank you. I feel so privileged to have spent this day with you!
Special thanks to nutmegkitty for all of the planning. The venue was great.
LifeIsBroken ( member #27071) posted at 2:06 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
What can possibly be much better than spending an afternoon with SURVIVORS who get it ? It was a pleasure meeting each and every one of you and I look forward to a repeat gtg. Thank you, NK, for putting it together. I was nervous to attend but shouldn't have been.
D-Day: 8/28/2009
BW: 59 @ D-Day XH: 60 @ D-Day Married 34 yrs, LIBerated: 2/17/11
Beyond terror is freedom. (Agnes Martin)
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