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MA/New England peeps - gtg?

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 9:17 PM on Saturday, February 1st, 2014

No reason we can't do a spring and fall g2g

The only weekend I'm not available in April is the 12th-13th.

SD-I used to go to 'The Fair' many years ago you probably weren't even born yet

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 12:27 AM on Sunday, February 2nd, 2014

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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 nutmegkitty (original poster member #33882) posted at 4:14 PM on Sunday, February 2nd, 2014

There is a NYAJ in Westboro, and some other places too.

Me - happy!
2 DDs

Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.

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risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 10:09 PM on Sunday, February 2nd, 2014

Westboro would work. It would be great to be in a private room.

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LifeIsBroken ( member #27071) posted at 11:37 PM on Sunday, February 2nd, 2014

Westborough is fine with me…. or ? Whatever works, just let me know the final decision. Yay ! Fun ! Looking forward to 4/26 !

D-Day: 8/28/2009
BW: 59 @ D-Day XH: 60 @ D-Day Married 34 yrs, LIBerated: 2/17/11
Beyond terror is freedom. (Agnes Martin)

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simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 2:17 PM on Wednesday, February 5th, 2014

Giving this a bump

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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 nutmegkitty (original poster member #33882) posted at 7:25 PM on Monday, February 10th, 2014

another bump.

I'm starting to look at places. Do people want to do a buffet? A menu with a few items on it?

Me - happy!
2 DDs

Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.

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TheRealDeal ( member #39560) posted at 9:17 PM on Monday, February 10th, 2014

A place with a few menu items on it is my preference but I'll go with the majority vote.

Me (BS): 47 him (Xws): 55
together 18 years
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March - June 2013
Dday4 + June 2015 through January 2016
Status: done I called it quits 1-6-2016
The hardest part of letting go is realizing there wasn't much left to hold on to

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LifeIsBroken ( member #27071) posted at 10:37 PM on Monday, February 10th, 2014

Doesn't make any difference to me. Wherever, whatever. Thank you for putting this together, NK.

D-Day: 8/28/2009
BW: 59 @ D-Day XH: 60 @ D-Day Married 34 yrs, LIBerated: 2/17/11
Beyond terror is freedom. (Agnes Martin)

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 10:59 PM on Monday, February 10th, 2014

The food is not a big deal for me but it may be for others. The thing to look for a place where conversation will flow rather than having to shout across the table at each other. A venue where people can mingle (i.e., walk around) is ideal. And for old people like me the less noise the better. My hearing isn't what it used to be.

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 1:39 AM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014

I will plan the day off from work now! I would love to go!

I don't care where, when, or what we eat, I will be there!

Is is spring yet???

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

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brokensoul75 ( new member #41473) posted at 4:33 AM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014

I'm in W. MA. Not sure about traveling yet, that is one of my hurdles to get over this year.

(One of my diagnoses post-dday was agoraphobia, and being in a wheelchair, I don't have my own vehicle yet, so H is my chauffeur everywhere. That situation is hoping to change.)


You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you. ~Walt Disney

We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey. ~Kenji Miyazawa

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 nutmegkitty (original poster member #33882) posted at 7:51 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2014

we need 5 more folks to commit to get a semi private room at a place I'm looking at. It would be a plated meal with three selections.

Who else wants to come?!?!?!?!?!?!

Take2?

UndecidedInMA??

Me - happy!
2 DDs

Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.

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simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 10:08 PM on Tuesday, February 18th, 2014

Bump

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 12:28 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

Bump!

Location suggestions? Lets do this!

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 nutmegkitty (original poster member #33882) posted at 7:14 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

Rising I will PM you.

Me - happy!
2 DDs

Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.

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 nutmegkitty (original poster member #33882) posted at 6:26 PM on Monday, March 3rd, 2014

Another bump. I'm still contacting places to try to find a private dining room that will take us. Most have a high $$ minimum. I just contacted one today that has a room that seats up to 20, which sounds like what we need.

Me - happy!
2 DDs

Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.

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 nutmegkitty (original poster member #33882) posted at 9:27 PM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

OK! We are booked for April 26 at noon!

PM me for the place and details!!!

Me - happy!
2 DDs

Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.

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risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 11:54 AM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

Yeah!!! Thank you nutmegkitty! Look forward to the gtg!

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TheRealDeal ( member #39560) posted at 3:03 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

Thank you nutmegkitty!

PM to you on the way

Me (BS): 47 him (Xws): 55
together 18 years
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March - June 2013
Dday4 + June 2015 through January 2016
Status: done I called it quits 1-6-2016
The hardest part of letting go is realizing there wasn't much left to hold on to

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