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allatsea (original poster member #38923) posted at 3:09 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
I know I bounce from strength to weakness but even I can see that this is a major milestone.
I can also see that Gru and the harlet deserve each other. I'm taking bets on how soon they get married. It wouldn't surprise me if she is already engaged and I predict marriage before grulet appears
I never expected to be a divorcee
You can't fix crazy. All you can do is document it
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:16 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Congratulations, aas. There are often conflicting emotions when the decree arrives, so allow yourself to feel and process whatever may come.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Jduff ( member #41988) posted at 4:13 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
AAS, it will get better from here on out. Take it day by day and process as much as you're able at a time.
I'm almost there myself, so I envy you. 
Anyway, great job staying so vigilant through the whole process. You did excellent!
The grass is always greener.... where the dogs are shitting.
-Soundgarden
Guinness23 ( member #42852) posted at 6:19 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
I never expected to be a divorcee
Welcome to the club. I never did, either. I am Catholic and the first in my family EVER to be one. It sucks....but it IS liberating.
Me 48
Divorced 2010
1."'FOREVER' in love" lasts only 14 years.
2. Alcohol is NO solution just a bigger problem
My favorite drink is water. Call me Dasani23
CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 10:08 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
(((HUGS))) Aas!
Sending you peace and strength.
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
allatsea (original poster member #38923) posted at 11:18 AM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
Thread closed
I'm off to New Beginnings! Thank you to all of you. Here is better than IC or MC
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=527509
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[This message edited by allatsea at 5:20 AM, April 4th (Friday)]
You can't fix crazy. All you can do is document it
happyman64 ( member #33212) posted at 6:18 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
Good Luck AAS.
Your ex is nuts. Gru is a loser.
And though you probably will have the last laugh I wish you nothing but the best for you and your boys.
When they get older there is no doubt in my mind that they will be giving her plenty of hell for you.....
HM
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