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roarlouder (original poster member #40921) posted at 4:16 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
First Valentine's Day on my own in 11 years. It was never a big deal for us, so the day hasn't been a big trigger. But, the day may have meaning to me now. It's the first "holiday" since I left.
First one in at least 5 years, probably 11 years, that I have t spent with someone who was lying to my face. Sending someone else cards and gifts. Spending the day with them in a hotel while I was at work.
So it's a good day. Because its real.
DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 4:19 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
So it's a good day. Because its real.
You've got it now. (((HUGS)))
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
roarlouder (original poster member #40921) posted at 4:26 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
Well I have my moments! Tough days to come in the next week so I am soaking up every wonderful moment of happiness.
And it is true. I'd rather be by myself, in my cozy new PJs, with popcorn, wine and a good movie than lying next to someone, giving them my heart while they are a lying, cheating, coward (see the anger and resentment snuck in there)
DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 3:37 PM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
I loved reading this. You weren't kidding when you chose your username!
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 4:07 PM on Saturday, February 15th, 2014
Most excellent. You're sounding strong!
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
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