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painpaingoaway ( member #27196) posted at 1:59 AM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
(((NIK))) sending calming thoughts and prayers for peace for your Dad (and you).
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 3:47 PM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
(((NIK))) 
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 4:16 PM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
Thank you all so much.
There's no pulmonary embolism, but Dad continues to struggle with his breathing due to fluid build-up.
He's miserable and in pain. He is now talking about how he doesn't want to continue as he is, since his quality of life is gone. Although these are difficult things to hear, I am relieved that he is coming to terms with where he is and is able to talk about it openly with us.
Difficult days for all of us. Your thoughts and support are appreciated more than I can say.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 4:31 PM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
Hey NIK. Just wanted to send more positive thoughts and strength for both you and your dad to get through.
I will be thinking of you today
yop
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 4:40 PM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
Sending positive thoughts your way NIK.
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 4:44 PM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
sending you more strength and prayers.
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 5:38 PM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
(((((((Nik))))))
Keeping you and my family in my prayers.
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
DixieD ( member #33457) posted at 5:59 PM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
((((NIK))))
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 6:40 PM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
Sending you love and strength. I am so so sorry that you have to be so sad my friend.
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 8:15 PM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
He must be a wonderful man to have raised you. I hope he improves...if not I hope there will be peace and dignity for him and an ability to choose his exit gracefully.
Sending peace and strength.
plainsong ( member #37826) posted at 10:47 PM on Tuesday, July 8th, 2014
Sending prayers for comfort and support for you, your father and your family. This is a very difficult time, and it is so good that you can know that whatever happens is taking place in the context of the loving relationship that you and your father have created between you.
Me, fWW
Him, fBH (sisoon)
Dday, 12/22/2010
I use capital letters for emphasis, not yelling.
Reconciled and healing.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 11:21 PM on Tuesday, July 8th, 2014
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 11:58 PM on Tuesday, July 8th, 2014
((NIK))
Thinking about you and your Dad. Sending out thoughts of peace and comfort for you.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 12:39 AM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
(((Empress, dad and family)))))
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 5:01 AM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
Failure is success if we learn from it.
CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 12:04 AM on Friday, July 11th, 2014
Sending you both peace and strength. (((NIK)))
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
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