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BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 3:33 AM on Monday, June 9th, 2014
Have a wonderful day! 
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 3:42 AM on Monday, June 9th, 2014
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 3:52 AM on Monday, June 9th, 2014
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:05 AM on Monday, June 9th, 2014
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 4:19 AM on Monday, June 9th, 2014
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 4:30 AM on Monday, June 9th, 2014
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 11:41 AM on Monday, June 9th, 2014
Belated Happy Birthday painpaingoaway. Am I too late for cake?
And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 12:08 PM on Monday, June 9th, 2014
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 12:10 PM on Monday, June 9th, 2014
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 1:38 PM on Monday, June 9th, 2014
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 3:17 PM on Monday, June 9th, 2014
Happy Birthday!!!
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:27 PM on Monday, June 9th, 2014
Happy Birthday!!!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:38 PM on Monday, June 9th, 2014
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
painpaingoaway ( member #27196) posted at 7:39 PM on Monday, June 9th, 2014
Thank you everyone!!! Love the cakes! TR, love the mushroom cake! You 'get' me, lol!
Had a wonderful B-day. We celebrated it yesterday at the Spoleto (Arts Festival) Finale at Middleton Plantation and gardens on the Ashley river. My lovely daughter arranged everything, had everyone bring food and wine, flowers, table and tablecloths, there was a band, and FIREWORKS at the end of the night!
But my most precious gift y'all, is the fact that my son is doing so so well right now that it is almost miraculous. Truly, truly miraculous. YAY!!!!!
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D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 2:49 AM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
Belated Happy Birthday, ppga. Glad it was a good one.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 3:00 AM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
Happy Birthday, PPGA!!! 
Waiting4Daylite ( member #36213) posted at 5:01 AM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 5:52 AM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
Happy birthday! So glad you had a lovely one, you deserve it!
fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.
I edit often to fix stuff ☺️
Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 4:19 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
abbycadabby ( member #27428) posted at 4:26 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
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