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 authenticnow (original poster member #16024) posted at 11:30 AM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014

Good luck, I know it's no picnic to have 3 adults under one roof! (((an)))

Make that 4. Did I mention that DS25 recently moved back home?

Thank you, everyone.

Kuwaited, that's a different perspective that I never thought of. I'm so damn serious all the time, maybe I need to lighten up a bit. Not tolerate her disrespect, but throw it back at her in a 'joking' way. That'll catch her off guard, for sure!

She has another interview tomorrow and another one that she's going to set up possibly for tomorrow, too (if she can work out the times).

If you could all send 'get the job' mojo, that would be great . SI mojo works!!!

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 2:08 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014

((((AN and crew))))

Sending lots of job mojo!

Hang in there. You'll survive this phase, and hopefully be able to look back and laugh at some point.

[This message edited by LosferWords at 8:08 AM, June 17th (Tuesday)]

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:38 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014

(((AN)))

You two are so close. I'm sure talking to her will help.

Sending super job mojo.

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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 7:54 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014

Interview mojo!

I dread to think what I was like at this age when I saw my parents. Ouch, just ouch.

I hope I am better now but I don't know, daughters! We're the worst! And the best

Sit. Feast on your life.

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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 9:25 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014

Sending SI job mojo!

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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 authenticnow (original poster member #16024) posted at 10:41 PM on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014

Thank you!

She said that she thinks the interview went well and she's feeling really good about it! Now, we wait!

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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 authenticnow (original poster member #16024) posted at 2:11 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

Update---

DD got the job! Thanks for the mojo!

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:25 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

Congrats!!!

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Mama_of_3_Kids ( member #26651) posted at 3:29 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

a) How is she even done with college!?! It seems like you just posted about her first semester and how she was struggling with being away from home/the boyfriend.

b) YAY for her getting the job!!!!

Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS16, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's

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Schadenfreude ( member #43075) posted at 3:51 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

We have two recycled grads. Wel,one actually at present as DD got job teaching overseas. DS is working locally, but without job security. So he's still home. Fortunately gf and he spend their time together. They just bought a puppy ( living at her mothers house) so they must be serious.

No real adjustment problems except for their objection to our instance that our home wasn't a colege apartment. So dishes go in dishwasher, washing machine and dryer are motive as soon as the cycles are done, and we need to see that their bedrooms are still carpeted, not covered in clothes. You get the picture.

I'm hoping DS gets a steady job as he'll soon be 26 and it's just time. DD? I'm hoping Pablo Escobars kid isn't my new son in law!

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 authenticnow (original poster member #16024) posted at 12:15 PM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

Mama,

Tell me about it! I feel like I chronicled her whole college/growing up years on here. I've been here since 2007 so that makes sense, lol. You all helped me raise her .

Ah yes, the ex HS boyfriend. She came home from college with a different boyfriend . He lives two hours from us but they're still going strong. They're navigating this new 'at home without each other' life.

Yes, DS is another story. Still living at home, working a crappy part-time job, hardly ever home and it's working out pretty well. I will always worry about him. I wonder how he will survive when H and I are gone (morbid, but that's what I think about). Our goal in life is for our kids to be self sufficient, but I'm not sure that will ever happen with him.

Anyway...........

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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