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tesla ( member #34697) posted at 1:32 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
Wow. Thanks everyone! I'm taking ya'll in with me this morning. Yesterday I was all codependent, pre D-day Tesla...falling back into the pattern of assuaging my angry husband no matter the cost to my self-worth.
Today, I woke up mad.
Fuck that guy. He doesn't get to dictate what happens at this meeting because he's an academy award winning mantrum thrower.
Sbb- I love Ab Fab:)
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 1:46 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
That's right!
Mojo heading your way!
Lola2kids ( member #32789) posted at 1:47 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
You go girl.
Get your bitch boots on and stomp him silly if he tries to dictate the direction of this meeting.
FTG!!!
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 1:47 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
You've got this. The fucker thinks he has a card to play. He doesn't.
No cards. He is dead in the water he just doesn't know it.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 2:29 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
*like* ^^^^ 
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 3:14 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
Prayers and Mojo your way today.
You got this girl.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
FirstLoveGone ( member #25957) posted at 3:14 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
Thinking of you today tesla. Tons of mojo heading your way.
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 3:16 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
Joining late, but tons of MOJO! (Not that you really need to do anything, he's already set to "self-destruct" mode. Just letting you know I'm with you. )
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
IrishLass518 (original poster member #34373) posted at 4:01 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
I woke up thinking of you. Sending good thoughts and more mojo. I can't wait for the "Tesla done so good" update 
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
need_hope ( member #23989) posted at 4:38 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
Mojo on the way to you Tesla. You've got this! FTG!!!
Me - happily engaged to a wonderful man
XWS - no longer matters
Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.
Don't fuck with me, I fuck back.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:39 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:41 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
Been thinking about you all morning, tesla. Mojo mojo mojo!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Softcentre ( member #39166) posted at 4:54 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
Hope it's gone well...if he can figure out how to use the calendar &gets the right day
Me: BW
Him: XWH
2 Children
Finally reached indifference & looking forward to my new beginning
Compartmented ( member #29410) posted at 4:56 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
Go Tesla!! Breathe, and stick to your guns! You've got this!
mojo, mojo, mojo, mojo mojo mojo
Gr8Lady ( member #36307) posted at 5:04 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
Strength Tesla, you've got this !
BS: Me (70yo)FWH: HIM (72 yo)) serial infidelities over past 35 years
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2013
friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over a
year a year. Now his health is declining,
among the lack of communication.
GingerAle ( member #33822) posted at 5:13 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
Thinking of you, Tesla. Hoping and praying for the best outcome, and sending you tons of mojo!
My EXWH: 6 month EA in 2010 OW 1
2 year Sexting/PA 2012-2014 OW2
I divorced him in May 2014
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 5:29 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
Oh God I hope this went well today!!!
FTG.
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 8:57 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
I hope you had the "shock 'n awe" stick for him!!!
Sending strength and mojo.
FTG over and over and over again
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
KeepOnMovin ( member #38245) posted at 10:26 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
Hope it went well today. Glad you got your mad on! You need to feed that anger sometimes to protect yourself.
Me: Creating a better life for myself
Her: Somebody else's problem
Married: 22 years
2 sons at home
1 son in college
Divorced on 9/4/14!
Often it's the deepest pain which empowers you to grow into your highest self.
attempt2survive ( new member #28412) posted at 10:49 PM on Friday, June 20th, 2014
Thinking of you and praying for you and Teslet!
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