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Light candles, send mojo for Tesla tomorrow

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devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 4:56 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

I LOVE your L, and I LOVE that noose! It's getting reallllllyyyy tight around his neck now. Sign it, or see what the judge says!!

So, all that crap from the other night, and other than saying something beforehand, he didn't bring it up at all during the 4 way to try and show you did something wrong? Guess his lawyer told him to stuff it.

I'm glad you are decompressing, and I hope you enjoy some downtime this weekend. You and Teslet will have a wonderful weekend on Monday.

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

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tesla ( member #34697) posted at 5:07 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

I think they were going to try to make an issue of the whole 'break in'. But, my L told me before the meeting today, that she was confident that once his L met me and saw how I behaved, that he was going to change some of his rhetoric.

Apparently this happened with ex-shat's first L as well.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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peridot ( member #18334) posted at 5:13 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

You and your attorney rock!!!

I have a feeling you will get a signed agreement. If he follows through is another story.

I bet that rope is getting tight around his neck.

I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.

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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 5:16 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

Tesla,

Yay!!!! Good for you and your attorney. And better for Teslet having days with you.

My XH is in emergency mgt. according to him I control hurricanes - let me know when you want one scheduled. I'll see what I can do.

I can't wait to see the results of the supbeona.

Enjoy your weekend.

K

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 5:20 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

@K... I had no idea you were so powerful!!

Tesla, I love the update! You are sooooooo "reasonable" and by that you gave him absolutely NO choice but to try to meet your example. Good fucking luck on that buddy, but I applaud the effort.

And telling teslet to say "thank you?" Boy, wouldn't it be nice if he kept that act up??

You are a rock star!

Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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peridot ( member #18334) posted at 5:22 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

Kajem, I also have powers I never knew I had. I can't wait for that subpoena either. I also can't wait to see if he actually follows through with what he agrees to or if he ends up in jail. My bet is on jail!

I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.

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h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 6:04 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

Well... I guess I'll go get my car title back. Glad you didn't kill him and I am happy the meeting went well.

What a fantastic douche nozzle.

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 IrishLass518 (original poster member #34373) posted at 6:12 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

Love this update. So worth waiting for

Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

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nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 6:20 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

yes, my dear SI peeps...I give you ex-shat: public servant, protector of the masses

So glad I didn't have anything in my mouth when I read that! It would have been sprayed all over my computer screen!

I'm glad it went well and that you feel good about it.

Yay Tesla! Thanks for updating!

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

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BeHappyAgain ( member #41289) posted at 6:27 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

Yay!!!! So thankful that things turned out positively today!!

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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 6:40 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

Came to the party late, but WOOOOOHOOOOOOO!!!!

did you say ex shit?

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014

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dmari ( member #37215) posted at 9:32 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

So relieved to read your update ~ thank you so much for sharing! I hope Monday comes soon so you can be with your son!!

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 1:26 PM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

Still a jagoff, I see. But at least a controlled jagoff.

I'm glad he didn't bring up the great shoe caper. That was just bullshit.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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GingerAle ( member #33822) posted at 1:41 PM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

yes, my dear SI peeps...I give you ex-shat: public servant, protector of the masses..

Oh, thank heavens he is on our side!

As always Tesla, you rocked it. Your lawyer sounds amazing, too. I LOVE when these lying, cheating, personality disordered idiots are in a position where they have to contain their crazy. If only it happened more often. Have fun with Teslet

My EXWH: 6 month EA in 2010 OW 1

2 year Sexting/PA 2012-2014 OW2

I divorced him in May 2014

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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 2:37 PM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

Now, ex-shat finally has something to say: "Oh, well, hopefully you can get something because I've been trying for months."

These are the documents you allegedly 'stole' right.

Oh my. I don't even know what to say. I just don't.

Can this much stupid really even breathe and regenerate skin cells at the same time? I'm imagining him as some sort of Matrix 'real world' amoeba who has been unplugged. Maybe check for a plug in the back of his head - something like this:

You showed great restraint when he called you Tess. That was a baiting move and you my friend swam straight past that rancid little worm. Fucker - how dare he!

He is not Tess worthy - in many sense of the word!!

As for the rest of the update. I'm happier now than when my own D came through. I may even celebrate by getting laid!! (Joking/Not Joking). I'm thrilled.

That went even better than I had hoped. Of course nothing is assured until the money is in your account but I still call this a win for team Tesla. At the very least it is further proof that you're trying to resolve this in the face of extreme arse cheese fuckwitism of the lowest form.

I don't need to hold your earrings, girl. You can take this fucker fully jewelled.

Fuck.....That......Guy.....

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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ruinedandbroken ( member #29250) posted at 2:55 PM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

LOVE IT!!!!! Great news Tesla!!

“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 8&11
Married 14 yrs Together 21

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gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 3:23 PM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

***** "I'm sure, once we have an agreement established and some good will built up, this could potentially be on the table." *****

^^^This is my favorite line from the whole exchange.

Ex-shat owes (and won't pay) you money for the tax refund and CS and he gives you brain damage over Teslet every chance he gets ....... and yet expects you to make concessions and *work with him* at his whim (for his potential summer disaster work).

What a nice way for your L to say: Sure buddy, we'll get right on that as soon as YOU stop acting like a dick!

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

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Gr8Lady ( member #36307) posted at 3:48 PM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

Give him enough rope and he will hang himself!

I agree dressing professionally sets the stage for the way you will be perceived as well as taken.

On a humorous note. Stripper whore's failure to be there to "look relevant" was a plus. Guess the playboy bunny outfit is getting tight, or she is riding her pony.

BS: Me (70yo)FWH: HIM (72 yo)) serial infidelities over past 35 years
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2013

friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over a
year a year. Now his health is declining,
among the lack of communication.

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Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 4:12 PM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014

Maybe next time suggest that the papers he can't find were eaten by the dog he stole when he broke into your home.

"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 7:41 PM on Sunday, June 22nd, 2014

Virtual fist bump to your lawyer and a big "hell yeah" for laying that noose out on the table to show ex-shat your fancy knot making skills.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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