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heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 5:23 AM on Saturday, July 12th, 2014
I'm so sorry 
(((Angel)))
Sending you love from afar.
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
ProbableIceCream ( member #37468) posted at 5:54 AM on Saturday, July 12th, 2014
Salt ( member #43726) posted at 6:34 AM on Saturday, July 12th, 2014
I am so very sorry for your loss!!
Melody Beattie has a book called the Grief Club. In it she describes her experiences after her son died. She adds a list of a number of resources for parents who have lost their children.
May God bless….
BS, 55, Divorced
I read and walked for miles at night along the beach, writing bad blank verse and searching endlessly for someone wonderful who would step out of the darkness and change my life. It never crossed my mind that that person would be me.
Asil0623 ( member #42419) posted at 10:20 PM on Tuesday, July 29th, 2014
So very, very sorry!! Praying that you will find peace.
Me-BS
Him- FWH 1 yr+LTA w/ COW
DDay Dec 2013
R March 2015
Happy Again
SpecialK ( member #42372) posted at 6:14 PM on Wednesday, July 30th, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss.
LivinginLimbo ( member #35004) posted at 2:43 AM on Thursday, July 31st, 2014
I am so sorry for this unimaginable loss.
BS - 65
WH - 63
Married 37 years
D-Day 2/12/12
D-Day 6/1/16 Caught him back online early enough that no physical contact took place but still devastating. This sucks.
Crushed1 ( member #6449) posted at 3:42 AM on Thursday, July 31st, 2014
((((Angel&family)))) My heart goes out to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH
Angel177 (original poster member #37274) posted at 7:17 PM on Thursday, July 31st, 2014
Me:BS
Him:WH
D-Day Sept. 14/12...R started Dec. 3/12
D-Day 2 Oct. 12/19 different OW
In limbo
determinata ( member #42124) posted at 4:54 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Just checking in on you, Angel. Hugs....
M 2007. DDay 2008
~10+ CL Prostitutes in 8 months
Divorcing SAWH "ActionsOverWords"
Me: Early 30s BW (also an adult OC) w Baby DS
6 years of TT, hidden STD & false R
Separated 5 mos+; he will not commit
Someday I will be okay
determinata ( member #42124) posted at 4:54 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
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M 2007. DDay 2008
~10+ CL Prostitutes in 8 months
Divorcing SAWH "ActionsOverWords"
Me: Early 30s BW (also an adult OC) w Baby DS
6 years of TT, hidden STD & false R
Separated 5 mos+; he will not commit
Someday I will be okay
determinata ( member #42124) posted at 4:54 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Just checking in on you, Angel. Hugs....
M 2007. DDay 2008
~10+ CL Prostitutes in 8 months
Divorcing SAWH "ActionsOverWords"
Me: Early 30s BW (also an adult OC) w Baby DS
6 years of TT, hidden STD & false R
Separated 5 mos+; he will not commit
Someday I will be okay
determinata ( member #42124) posted at 4:54 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Just checking in on you, Angel. Hugs....
M 2007. DDay 2008
~10+ CL Prostitutes in 8 months
Divorcing SAWH "ActionsOverWords"
Me: Early 30s BW (also an adult OC) w Baby DS
6 years of TT, hidden STD & false R
Separated 5 mos+; he will not commit
Someday I will be okay
dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 6:20 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
I am so sorry.
We were seen at the hospital Chaplin's office as a family unit for grieftherapy after my son was killed.
We went to Compassionate Friends & POMC. I found solace with the latter group & in reading "When Bad Things Happen to Good People" by Rabbi Kushner.
I never thought I would ever have to write his obituary & plan his services.
((((((huge hugs))))))
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
cass ( member #24261) posted at 12:04 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2014
(((Angel))) so very sorry for the loss of your precious son.
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
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