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mixedemotions ( member #35810) posted at 4:00 AM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
No words. "I'm sorry" definitely doesn't cover it...I'm glad you're looking for support. You are not in this alone.
Me: Former BW, 28
Divorced 10/11/12
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie
worried_lady ( member #27605) posted at 4:05 AM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
There are just no words, I am so sorry just does not express the heart ache I feel for you. May you feel every hug sent to you. 
Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over it became a butterfly.
wishicouldredo ( new member #43623) posted at 7:54 AM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss - my heart aches for you. Your family is in my thoughts.
"I'm not where I need to be, but thank God I'm not where I used to be."
"Feelings are just visitors, let them come and go." - Mooji
NaiveAgain ( member #20849) posted at 1:46 PM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
I am so sorry. Sending hugs and positive energy to help you get thru this......((((Angel & Family))))
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 3:55 PM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
Words are but poor agents to say how sorry one is when a child passes away. (((angel))) I pray for strength for you to get through this horrendous time.
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
meaniemouse ( member #10798) posted at 6:01 PM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James
Want2babettrme ( new member #43291) posted at 7:09 PM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
Angel, I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family.
BC due to Dad's affair, BBF due to WX fiance's cheating in LDR.
allusions ( member #25376) posted at 8:19 PM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
My grandson just turned 13 months old. I can only imagine how it would feel to lose him. I am so sorry for what you are going through.
You can apologize over and over, but if your actions don't change, your words become meaningless.
Behind every crazy bitch is a sweet girl who just got tired of being lied to.
I've found the key to happiness: Stay away from assholes.
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 10:32 PM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
I'm so sorry for your loss
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
roseguide ( member #35697) posted at 2:01 AM on Tuesday, July 8th, 2014
((((((Angel)))))
Prayers for you and your family.
In the end, only three things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of the things not meant for you. – Buddhist saying
Ellejay ( member #30498) posted at 1:09 PM on Tuesday, July 8th, 2014
I have no words that will ever be enough. My heart breaks for you.
EJ
xxx
Married 25 years now divorced.
D-Day: 20/11/10
Me: 48.5 plus 10% GST
Him: mental age 6 (apologies to all 6 year olds)
Betrayal: Who cares anymore?
Tammy1 ( member #43280) posted at 3:52 PM on Tuesday, July 8th, 2014
I am so, so very sorry for your incredible loss. My heart is breaking for you. I am praying for you and your family.
BW: 44 (me)
WH: 47 (him)
Married 22 years
3 kids
D-Day: 4/7/14, 11 month LTA
Together
SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 10:08 PM on Tuesday, July 8th, 2014
Thinking of you today and will be tomorrow also. Sending strength and peace.
Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
positively4thst ( member #23998) posted at 12:18 AM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
So many have replied already, but I just want you to know that a stranger (me) cares about you and is deeply saddened by your loss and grief. In the larger sense, a child lost is a child lost to all.
My prayers are with you. Many hugs to you.
Sal1995 ( member #39099) posted at 2:32 AM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 6:10 AM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
Just read this now. I am so very sorry for your loss. Many thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)
monarchwings ( member #39891) posted at 11:36 AM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
I woke up thinking thinking of you and your family. I know today will be very difficult. My heart feels very heavy for you and your family. I wish I could take some of your pain. We released butterflies during my daughters celebration of life services. I think it was helpful for our other daughters to help deal with the emotions of everything.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 5:17 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
((((Angel))))
My very deepest condolences. I am so very sorry for this tragic loss.
((((Angel & baby & family))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
Bobbi_sue ( member #10347) posted at 5:22 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
I am so very sorry. (((Angle)))
LovesLaboursLost ( member #37272) posted at 8:02 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
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