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Gottagetthrough (original poster member #27325) posted at 1:23 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014
My wh has a job interview tomorrow. If he gets this job, it would mean great things for us..
When he started his a (5 years ago!) he'd just gotten a new job, making a good salary. He had graduated grad school and taken the first job he was offered four years before, which was great learning experience, but not great salary. The job that he met ow at was that great salary job, with added responsibilities from his first , entry level job.
Well, he royally screwed that up with a workplace affair topped off with drug abuse.
He got fired, went to another office, got fired from
There. It took him years to get his career back to starting point(he's making as much as he was at that first job he left. He's low man at the office now)
If he gets this job tomorrow, it's fantastic about the money ( the affair ruined our finances... Divorce, ow is a compulsive shopper , etc). But also, I'll feel like we are really R. Wh will have cleaned up all the mess he made with the A.
The A hurt us financially , and wh career wise. If he can get this job, the A will truly be a memory. We can buy a house, put down roots... Be in the place where we were when he stared his A, before he threw everything away
So please... Think happy thoughts for him tomorrow. It's not just a job :)
Daisy312 ( member #36813) posted at 1:31 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014
I'll keep my fingers crossed for him! This sounds like a great chance at a new beginning and you deserve it! :)
blakesteele ( member #38044) posted at 1:40 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014
Just said a specific prayer for you both.
A's cost more than can ever be tallied...I pray for your financial peace and that peace is a stronghold from which you both can go forth and make peace in the other areas in your life affected by adultery and addictions.
God is with us all.
ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred.
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 1:59 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014
Happy thoughts coming your way...
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:04 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014
Sending happy thoughts and mojo. 
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 3:36 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:00 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
callmesteph ( member #43595) posted at 6:49 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014
Gottagetthrough.....
If he can get this job, the A will truly be a memory. We can buy a house, put down roots... Be in the place where we were when he stared his A, before he threw everything away.
I know how it feels when you want something soooo bad because it becomes a turning point in your life. I will pray and hope for the best.
Good luck to both of you!
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 7:29 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014
Many happy thoughts and much mojo!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
healingroad ( member #41920) posted at 7:50 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014
((Gottagetthrough)) best wishes for you both. To have made it this far means you're both strong people.
Gottagetthrough (original poster member #27325) posted at 3:07 AM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
Thank you all so
Much. I really love this site & all of the support. To have you all understand what this job means ... Indescribable.
I haven't told wh how much this job means to me... That would be too much pressure. But to be able to tell you all and have you understand means so mucch.
Thank you
[This message edited by Gottagetthrough at 9:07 PM, July 6th (Sunday)]
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 3:29 AM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
Sending the happiest of thoughts for a good outcome!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Time Ticks On ( member #33772) posted at 5:07 AM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
Happy thoughts coming your way !
FBW- 50
FWH-51
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 25 years- together 27
What doesn't kill me, scars me.
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 5:10 AM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
Fingers crossed!!
Hoping for good news when you find out!
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 8:57 AM on Monday, July 7th, 2014
Add me to the list of sending positive vibes - I really hope he gets the job.
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
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