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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 2:54 AM on Wednesday, May 27th, 2015
That Fan Expo looks awesome. Jelly!
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
UnlovedAndBroked (original poster member #47870) posted at 3:26 AM on Wednesday, May 27th, 2015
I know!
I can't wait. The main folks I have to meet are Matt Smith, Stan Lee, and Nathan Fillion. But there's a ton of people that will be there, so I'm sure I'll see and do tons.
This is exactly the sort of thing I was never allowed to do under you know who. I think I'm going to enjoy freedom quite nicely.
"There are a million things in this universe you can have and there are a million things you can’t have. It’s no fun facing that, but that’s the way things are." - James T. Kirk
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 4:33 AM on Wednesday, May 27th, 2015
You'll have a blast! 
eta:
Nathan Fillion
*swoon*
[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 10:38 PM, May 26th (Tuesday)]
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
UnlovedAndBroked (original poster member #47870) posted at 5:26 AM on Wednesday, May 27th, 2015
Yes I will. I can't wait!
"There are a million things in this universe you can have and there are a million things you can’t have. It’s no fun facing that, but that’s the way things are." - James T. Kirk
HobbesTheTiger ( member #41477) posted at 8:18 AM on Wednesday, May 27th, 2015
Woo-hoo, that sounds awesome!:)
PlanNine ( member #46311) posted at 12:08 PM on Wednesday, May 27th, 2015
Nerd Alert! Nerd Alert!
(I can say that, since I'm one too...please don't shoot me 
)
"I was also thinking, 'Maybe I'm not a bike racer.' I doubted myself for a while, but now I'm back on track. I may not be a bike racer, but I can beat plenty of them that reckon they are." - Guy Martin
MollyMoo ( member #45749) posted at 12:24 PM on Wednesday, May 27th, 2015
I am a geek, and I am *totally* against bantering!
fbgf - 32
WPOSXBF- 33 - Together almost 10 years
Multiple D-Days
Multiple False R's
No children brought into this mess, thank god!
"That "unicorn" is probably a donkey with a dildo stuck on it's head"
HobbesTheTiger ( member #41477) posted at 2:56 PM on Wednesday, May 27th, 2015
*raises hand* Proud carrier of the nerd-card here :)
Didact ( member #42867) posted at 12:58 AM on Thursday, May 28th, 2015
Ok continuing the total thread jump:
For geeks of a certain age (me), "Ready Player One" was an incredible read.
Serious!
No matter how painful, life either adapts or it dies.
BH (Me) 49
WW 48
Married 1985
D-Day Mar 19, 2014
1 year passionate EA/PA, ended by me on d-day.
Attempting to R
UnlovedAndBroked (original poster member #47870) posted at 4:21 PM on Thursday, May 28th, 2015
Ready Player One was INCREDIBLE!
I know I shouldn't be, but I'm pretty excited to see what Steven Spielberg does with the film adaptation.
Getting back on topic, my STBXWW contacted me yesterday. She went to invite my brothers to DS' graduation party and discovered all three of my brothers had unfriended her on Facebook.
For some reason, this puzzles her.
I swear, I used to think she was brilliant. Now she just says and does the dumbest things.
No shit they unfriended you. That's the kindest way they could have handled your betrayal of their brother. Consider yourself lucky they didn't light your wall up with posts about your skanky ass.
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"There are a million things in this universe you can have and there are a million things you can’t have. It’s no fun facing that, but that’s the way things are." - James T. Kirk
UnlovedAndBroked (original poster member #47870) posted at 4:23 PM on Thursday, May 28th, 2015
By the way, since we're past discovery and really, the only way things are going is D, I am probably going to let this thread go the way of the buffalo and start up a new one in the D forum.
I'll let y'all know when I do.
"There are a million things in this universe you can have and there are a million things you can’t have. It’s no fun facing that, but that’s the way things are." - James T. Kirk
MollyMoo ( member #45749) posted at 4:23 PM on Thursday, May 28th, 2015
Poor widdle muffin, your brothers were not happy with her going off for weekends away with OM?
How rude and unreasonable of them(!)
Hey, where's your invite, seeing as DS is... well, your DS and all?
[This message edited by MollyMoo at 10:24 AM, May 28th (Thursday)]
fbgf - 32
WPOSXBF- 33 - Together almost 10 years
Multiple D-Days
Multiple False R's
No children brought into this mess, thank god!
"That "unicorn" is probably a donkey with a dildo stuck on it's head"
ICaughtThem ( member #45041) posted at 4:24 PM on Thursday, May 28th, 2015
Were you invited to your DS's Graduation Party?
Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn’t.
UnlovedAndBroked (original poster member #47870) posted at 4:27 PM on Thursday, May 28th, 2015
Yeah. Her confusion at their unfriending her really bakes my noodle. I mean... did you think they wouldn't want to choke you out if they caught you in a dark alley?
Yes, I am invited to the graduation party. This should be all sorts of fun...
"There are a million things in this universe you can have and there are a million things you can’t have. It’s no fun facing that, but that’s the way things are." - James T. Kirk
UnlovedAndBroked (original poster member #47870) posted at 4:30 PM on Thursday, May 28th, 2015
Oh, and I forgot, it gets even more funny.
To invite me, she sent me a friend request on Facebook. That's right, I'm allowed to be Facebook friends with my wife again. How generous of her...
Which I accepted... and then turned around and invited my brothers to the party once I got the invite.
Now, I've laid ground rules for everyone - absolutely no public drama. Make the day about DS.
But, if they were to want to pull her aside and have a few expletive-laced words with her, I'm fine with it. 
"There are a million things in this universe you can have and there are a million things you can’t have. It’s no fun facing that, but that’s the way things are." - James T. Kirk
Jduff ( member #41988) posted at 5:01 PM on Thursday, May 28th, 2015
Oh, these silly waywards try to find support for their activity in the oddest ways...one of them being through FB friend invites. Pfft!
Its so fucking "high school".
The grass is always greener.... where the dogs are shitting.
-Soundgarden
UnlovedAndBroked (original poster member #47870) posted at 5:04 PM on Thursday, May 28th, 2015
Yes, very high school.
I noticed just now that she unfriended me again.
Waywards, man. They are so weird. Oh well. I just needed to be friended so I could get the invitation to the party and invite my brothers. Now that that's done, no worries.
The mandated 61 day "cool down" period after filing for divorce is up on July 22. I just created a reminder on Google Now to give me a nice, pretty pop-up telling me to call the court on that day (it's a Wednesday, if anyone is curious) and schedule the hearing.
I can't wait for this to be behind me.
"There are a million things in this universe you can have and there are a million things you can’t have. It’s no fun facing that, but that’s the way things are." - James T. Kirk
Western ( member #46653) posted at 5:12 PM on Thursday, May 28th, 2015
you need to change your status from uncertain to divorcing
UnlovedAndBroked (original poster member #47870) posted at 6:09 PM on Thursday, May 28th, 2015
I changed the status.
Thanks for the reminder, Western.
"There are a million things in this universe you can have and there are a million things you can’t have. It’s no fun facing that, but that’s the way things are." - James T. Kirk
WornDown ( member #37977) posted at 6:40 PM on Thursday, May 28th, 2015
Now, I've laid ground rules for everyone - absolutely no public drama. Make the day about DS.
But, if they were to want to pull her aside and have a few expletive-laced words with her, I'm fine with it.
Wow. You got more guts than I do.
My DD's graduation is this weekend. My family is taking her and siblings to dinner the night before, going to the ceremony, and then leaving. I think WW is planning on a party after the ceremony. Don't care - I'm not going.
I also told my family the only thing they can say to WW is "Hello." What color is the sky? Hello.
I'm keeping my family far as possible from WW. It'd get ugly. Fast.
Oh, and after we separated and WW was posting about dating (three months after we separated) and I reminded her that she was still married, she blocked me from all her social media - Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, you name it. 
Me: BH (50); exW (49): Way too many guys to count. Three kids (D, D, S, all >20)Together 25 years, married 18; Divorced (July 2015)
I divorced a narc. Separate everything. NC as much as humanly possible and absolutely no phone calls. - Ch
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