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Just Found Out :
Ashley Madison is going down

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 usedupmyhope (original poster new member #38330) posted at 12:56 PM on Monday, July 20th, 2015

I just read this report early this morning, and I know that there will be a large number of people smiling about this.

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Thinkingtoomuch ( member #31765) posted at 1:13 PM on Monday, July 20th, 2015

Yes. I'm looking forward to this. It could be a big deal too. Just think of the ramifications. At the least I hope it kicks up alot of dust and many people sweat for days.

[This message edited by Thinkingtoomuch at 7:14 AM, July 20th (Monday)]

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oodlesofnoodles ( new member #48550) posted at 1:49 PM on Monday, July 20th, 2015

Very interesting... looking forward to seeing how this plays out. Are there other websites similar to AM, though?

Me: BS 31
Him: WS 37
Married: 9 years, 1DD, 1DS
DDay: 1/13/15 (ea), 5/24/15 (ea/pa from AM), 11/1/15 discovered porn addiction
Mid R

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NeverAgain2013 ( member #38121) posted at 2:01 PM on Monday, July 20th, 2015

Bahahaha. I remember a few months ago a story about them being hacked, and sensitive payment/account/personal info had been compromised. I guess the hacking team that did it decided to sit on their information cache for a while.

I figured there were a lot of cheaters out there sweating bullets when THAT news hit the streets a few months ago.

I'm laughing even harder now, knowing some of their 'clientele' had their worst dreams came true and some of the info WAS indeed published, even though it was shortly taken down by pervert-boy who owns the site and his legal team.

Damn, that's entertaining.

Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.

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 usedupmyhope (original poster new member #38330) posted at 2:08 PM on Monday, July 20th, 2015

Actually, it was another site, adult friend finder which got hacked last time. This is a much bigger deal as they apparently stole every bit of sensitive data from the servers.

If you read the threat, the hackers are only interested in shutting the site down!

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LonelyDad ( member #47326) posted at 2:14 PM on Monday, July 20th, 2015

Already know ex is there and i actually really hope they release it.

Maybe then i can finally get a bit further i the truth and healing. Cause there is none to be found from the ex.

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Western ( member #46653) posted at 3:05 PM on Monday, July 20th, 2015

For once, I am pro-Hacker. bankrupt these idiots. Then bankrupt some of the users too

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 usedupmyhope (original poster new member #38330) posted at 3:22 PM on Monday, July 20th, 2015

Seriously, I think that anyone who actually meets people through Ashley Madison needs their head examined, especially if you're a woman.

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nononsense ( member #45598) posted at 3:36 PM on Monday, July 20th, 2015

Unfortunately, if it is shut down, with the success they had in making money, another will pop up, as if there were not others already.

look at how many cheater apps there are and a new one every day.

BH - 50 (me)
WW- 48 (her)
M- 27 years
3 daughters- 26, 24, 21
DDay1 7/5/2014 (PA- 2 different OM)
DDay2 11/28/2014- setting up another meeting new OM
5/1/2015- Looks like we are making it.
8/3/2015- Reconciled but watchful
11/10/2015- We made it

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deephurt ( member #48243) posted at 6:41 PM on Monday, July 20th, 2015

I hope all the users are published where EVERYONE can read who they are. They all deserve to be outed. Hopefully if another site comes up, it is hacked and taken down also. I wonder if the owners of this site can be sued for the damage that they cause families just by being available. Any lawyers on here know if thats possible?


so far successfully in R

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houseofpain ( member #25706) posted at 9:56 PM on Monday, July 20th, 2015

I put a dummy ad on there with a dummy pic back in 2009 because I suspected that my WS was using AM and I was checking to see if he would answer my ad.

I can't remember what information I used, my log-in or anything. Gee, I would hate to show up as a user on that piece of garbage website!

D-Day: 09/19/09
D-Day2: 10/19/13
D-Day3: 7/31/15 Sex with an ugly married Craiglist whore in my home (with my son in the house) DONE!
Me: 50
WS: 46
Blended family with 5 kids

Surprises, I feel now, are primarily a form of violence.

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Chicky ( member #18622) posted at 11:20 PM on Monday, July 20th, 2015

deephurt - I'm not an attorney but my fWH is...or was...decided law isn't his destiny...don't ask

But I would think, with my limited knowledge, that when one signs up for a site like that they accept the inherent possibility that something of this nature could happen and that by agreeing to the terms and conditions, they would not be able sue.

However, I also believe that they could easily get an attorney to take their case and prove whatever damages. At which point it would then be up to the judge and jury to further interpret whether or not the company IS in fact liable.

Lawsuits like that happen all day every day so one can hope that any BS that suffers damage because of their WS's actions does have legal recourse.

Givers need to set limits because takers never do. THIS GIVER DID and because I stood my ground, we are happily RECONCILED!

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kansas1968 ( member #32214) posted at 12:04 AM on Tuesday, July 21st, 2015

Yes, I had a big chuckle about this. Would be nice if the hackers posted all of the "clients" names on facebook!

Me - BS
Him - FWS
DD - December 14, 2010
Married 43 years 1/14/2011
Affair lasted 7+ years
Affair had been over for 2 years before I found out. OW sent me a letter.

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 2:16 AM on Tuesday, July 21st, 2015

Well, my, oh my. What a DAMNED shame! Drat those pesky hackers! And their little manifesto too!

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

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Gotmegood ( member #41407) posted at 2:57 AM on Tuesday, July 21st, 2015

Bravo. So pleased!

Me: faithful wife 62.
Him: WH 64 , prostitute 20 yr old
DDay: 8-13-2013
Status: boinging up and down like a yo-yo

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