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Graywolf ( member #48283) posted at 5:20 PM on Friday, September 2nd, 2016
BUMP.
Never tell anyone about the VAR. Don’t confront with information that you could have not found out any other way. Use stuff where they think that you could have had a PI or that friends saw them. Think of your VAR as a spy and you don't want to blow their cover.
Never tell all that you know. They know what they did. All that spilling your guts does if let them know what you know so that can minimize and make up a story that fits. For example if you found two hotel receipts only tell them about one. If you have enough then remove the VAR before you confront
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confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 6:10 PM on Thursday, September 15th, 2016
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
cajun123 ( member #48989) posted at 5:53 PM on Wednesday, October 5th, 2016
Unsure...bumping the VAR thread for you. Best of luck & my prayers to your family.
findingme1 ( member #55504) posted at 8:04 PM on Friday, October 7th, 2016
I knew something was wrong in ws behavior toward me. I bought a var and recorded ws and my life was forever changed. not one but 2 op, with one being a friend and church member. I'm devastated and don't know what to do. Ws refused to talk about it and all I know is what I heard via VAR.
kwb18 ( member #52251) posted at 6:26 PM on Monday, October 10th, 2016
Proceed with caution. It hurts hearing things. I had a feeling my ww was still talking to a guy I told her not to. I put the VAR in the car and sure enough, she called him and her tone was sickening. I didn't even recognize who she was. She never talked like that to me. For some one who was so broken up about cheating on me, she sure was perfectly happy and content talking to this guy.
40YOSL ( member #49318) posted at 4:09 AM on Friday, October 28th, 2016
EunuchMonk ( new member #54430) posted at 7:25 PM on Friday, October 28th, 2016
My opinion? Sony is your best bet. The SONY ICD PX333 Digital Voice Recorder is the one I own and it is $50 at most on Amazon.
20yrsagoBS ( member #55272) posted at 9:52 PM on Friday, October 28th, 2016
I bought two of the Olympus ones, used, for $3 each, from Amazon. Free shipping too
BW, 54 WH 53 When you lie down with dogs, you wake up with fleas
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