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Si Nye fundraiser! See serJr in a dress!

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SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 8:15 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Yeah... but I work with cement and concrete...

"Is it grey? Did it get hard? Good, now fuck off"

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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Bluesfan ( member #52344) posted at 8:20 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

^^^^^^^^^

BS/ me 50
WW/ 45
Dday1 14/12/15
Dday2 27/02/16
divorce final october 1, 2016
"God gave us the gift of life; it is up to us to give ourselves the gift of living well." Voltaire

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steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 8:38 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

I was under the mistaken impression that pink was pink. I see now how wrong I am based on the 20 samples provided. Thanks, Aubrie.

There is a straight pink. Also looking at fuscia and hot pink. I've heard of fuscia and now I have an example.

So, SerJR, either pink (top left hand corner of the examples Aubrie supplied) or fuscia or hot pink. Preference is hot pink.

BH(me)72(now); XWW 64; M 42 yrsDDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW 4 years; "dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, liesSeparated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020

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Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 8:41 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Yaaasssss!!!!

*fist bump SteadyChevy*

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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atalosss ( member #47882) posted at 9:01 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Not ballet slipper?

"You can't ride two horses with one ass" Channel66

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leapyearbaby ( member #24902) posted at 9:03 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

I think 2nd highest bid should get to pick the shade of pink!

I just donated....

me BS the Big 6-0!!
him WS 56
married 28 years
together 31
DD 6/10/08
ow #1,2 lta on and off since 1995
ow 3 ons summer 2005
2 D, mine from prior marriage, but he raised them
R'ing...probably not....but then again, maybe....

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Beyondbelief2016 ( member #56570) posted at 9:58 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Wait a moment! What is the total now? Is it makeup territory??

BW: 34 & WH: 37
Together almost 11 & M 9
cOW: affaired down like no tomorrow - EA into PA (approx 15 months)
DDays and TT: early nov to late dec 16
Had-enough-day: 20 Dec - read riot act
NYE onwards: focusing on making me happy first

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 Tred (original poster member #34086) posted at 10:13 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Unfortunately, unless Ser does it out of the goodness of his heart (and impeccable fashion sense) the fundraiser tally was $2542 at the midnight cutoff. Since then another $100 plus whatever LYB donated have through, so over $2642 has been raised.

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 10:26 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Do we have a deadline for SerJR to provide the picture? I see a flaming loophole for him to weasel out of this.

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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 Tred (original poster member #34086) posted at 10:41 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

We'll announce the "coming out" party soon . It takes some time to rock a look, and he doesn't want to disappoint . No pressure, nope. None.

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 10:58 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

It takes some time to rock a look, and he doesn't want to disappoint

I don't know if any of us has that kind of time, at least us older folks, she muttered, quietly.

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 11:52 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

I see a flaming loophole

Boooo!

You need to go to the mod punitentiary for that one

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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trying to smile ( member #9683) posted at 7:58 AM on Tuesday, January 3rd, 2017

Good Women.
May we know them,
May we be them,
May we raise them.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

"so when he finally showed his true colours they proved to be a startling shade of turd".

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SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 3:46 PM on Tuesday, January 3rd, 2017

Alright... well you little bastards put up a good fight, and I'm feeling somewhat inclined to hold up my end of the bargain. We'll do the big show this weekend coming up, depending on cant's shifts.

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 5:57 PM on Tuesday, January 3rd, 2017

Something to look forward to.... I think

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

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Beyondbelief2016 ( member #56570) posted at 6:07 PM on Tuesday, January 3rd, 2017

SerJR: it is such a compliment - think of how much everyone has shelled out for the opportunity for the big reveal

BW: 34 & WH: 37
Together almost 11 & M 9
cOW: affaired down like no tomorrow - EA into PA (approx 15 months)
DDays and TT: early nov to late dec 16
Had-enough-day: 20 Dec - read riot act
NYE onwards: focusing on making me happy first

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SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 6:10 PM on Tuesday, January 3rd, 2017

I expect y'all will be taking notes on how to pull off fabulous

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 6:29 PM on Tuesday, January 3rd, 2017

One isn't truly fabulous without a pedi.

Just sayin' *cough*

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 6:36 PM on Tuesday, January 3rd, 2017

Nah... I'll be fine without that...

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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Questioningall ( member #43959) posted at 11:01 PM on Tuesday, January 3rd, 2017

The bubble wrap thong might require waxing...

Me-BS 57
Him-WS 57 Sorrowfulmate
Married 30 years, 5 kids
Dday #1 12/12 He made up a ONS
Dday #2. 3/14 EAs, 3 ONS, 2 LTA

Buttercup: We'll never survive.
Westley: Nonsense. You're only saying that because no one ever has.

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