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Si Nye fundraiser! See serJr in a dress!

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 Tred (original poster member #34086) posted at 4:40 AM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Ok SI peeps... current tally is rocking it at $2342! Just over 20 minutes before SteadyChevy gets to pick the dress color!

And for all that donated, thank you. Just thank you.

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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atalosss ( member #47882) posted at 4:54 AM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Pretty awesome amount and lots of fun! Thank you all for arranging this! Feels great to be a part of something that goes to this community!

Love to all! May I suggest hot pink?

"You can't ride two horses with one ass" Channel66

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SwimminNotSinkin ( member #33291) posted at 4:55 AM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

I just donated $100 thru Paypal. Hope there's a flurry of donations in the next few minutes!

Me: 54
H: 56
M: 35 years (definitely EA; PA-truly hope not. OW is young enough to be his granddaughter!)
C: 4 (22 yrs. to 15 yrs.)
S: 4/2010
D: Filed by him 9/2010
Beginning Mediation
Divorce Final 2/8/2013!!

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mitz66 ( member #17888) posted at 4:56 AM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

HI I am late to the party...sorry. I have been here since 2007. I will donate 100 and I much appreciate all that SI has done and is doing!

Me:50/55. BS Him:48 XWH/55 xwbfMarried almost 10 years/ 3 yr rel3 adult kids/ 2 adult kids1st DDay 2 wks after marriage/ Mar 105 OW's and false R's/ 1+ OW’s? April 2017 Divorced/ ended rel Mar 16No second chances ever again!

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 Tred (original poster member #34086) posted at 5:27 AM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Feel the love SI? $2542 raised. That's damn incredible. You must really want to see Ser in a dress!

Just getting real for a second - SI lives and breathes because of the members and the wonderful people who keep it rocking. Over 56,000 people have registered on this site. Who knows how many people benefit from just reading this open forum. And that's a beautiful thing. Helping others with no expectation of reward. Why do we do it? "Just because". Just because. Just because we care.

MH and DS created this wonderful site, and for that, I thank them. You've thanked them by giving back.

Back to Ser's dress...SteadyChevy gets to pick the approximate color. Ser has to rock it, bubble wrap optional . The reveal date for the outfit will be posted soon, because Ser is working on something special .

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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Beyondbelief2016 ( member #56570) posted at 12:45 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

where are all the picture archives?? Surely there should be an evolutionary gallery lol

BW: 34 & WH: 37
Together almost 11 & M 9
cOW: affaired down like no tomorrow - EA into PA (approx 15 months)
DDays and TT: early nov to late dec 16
Had-enough-day: 20 Dec - read riot act
NYE onwards: focusing on making me happy first

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SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 1:11 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

The mods have top men working on the archives right now... top men...

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 1:52 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Pink is the colour.

Ser, thank you for doing this.

This is a wonderful, valuable site that provides so much help, direction, support. I wish I had found it 10 years earlier than I did.

BH(me)72(now); XWW 64; M 42 yrsDDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW 4 years; "dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, liesSeparated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020

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SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 2:03 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 2:13 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

The mods have top men working on the archives right now... top men...

FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:47 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

PINK! We can do pink AND bubble-wrap. Here ya go, SerJr!

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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MadOldBat ( member #44146) posted at 5:47 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Donation made!

Thank you so much for this.....

Brilliant Site, Brilliant Members, Brilliant Mods

Can't wait for THE BIG REVEAL!!!

MOB

Keeping my chin(s) up whilst getting divorced.

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Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 5:52 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Pink is the colour.

Oh please be more specific! There's a vast difference between blush-barely pink, and Barbie dream house pink. SerJR doesn't need to weasel out of some serious awesomeness.

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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Beyondbelief2016 ( member #56570) posted at 6:53 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

still waiting for the archived pics as the lead up to the main course

BW: 34 & WH: 37
Together almost 11 & M 9
cOW: affaired down like no tomorrow - EA into PA (approx 15 months)
DDays and TT: early nov to late dec 16
Had-enough-day: 20 Dec - read riot act
NYE onwards: focusing on making me happy first

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Jen ( member #26584) posted at 7:04 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

$100 donated

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SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 7:24 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Oh please be more specific! There's a vast difference between blush-barely pink, and Barbie dream house pink.

You just don't get it... I'm a dude... we only see in the CGA 16-colour palette. If pink even registers, you're gonna have to count yourselves as lucky

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 7:45 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Luckily the shade of pink isn't your choice SerJR.

(Oh puh-leeze SteadyChevy, be more color sensitive than the average male.)

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 7:48 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

Oh I think it should be Taffy Bubblegum

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 8:02 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

What the fuck is "taffy bubblegum"?

Are you even hearing yourself?

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 8:12 PM on Monday, January 2nd, 2017

What the fuck is "taffy bubblegum"?

It's an amalgam, it's a Chemistry word... you should know it.

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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