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LM2017 ( member #57377) posted at 7:00 PM on Monday, February 20th, 2017
Well she keeps her Touch ID enabled at all times and uses a passcode ,then falls asleep and it's mysteriously unlocked? Hmmm . Only way it is unlocked is if he caught it before it goes into sleep mode which is only a few minutes after she last touched it.
My thoughts as well ^^^
But then I wondered if the OP may have used her finger to unlock the phone, while she lay drunk and passed out....?
Op, I am one that believes in second chances (in some cases), when a SO has strayed. However, based on the details of your story, there is no way in hell that I'd ever recommend you offer or attempt reconciliation with this woman.
Your entire relationship with her has been ONE big lie! At best, she's used you as her sugar-daddy, and has never even seen you as boyfriend material, much less as a husband.
As another member has already mentioned, you really need to examine your own lack of self-esteem. Provided this is indeed real, please do not relegate yourself to being a doormat for a wife that has deceived you since day 1, and has not 1 shred of respect for you.
I'll see it when I believe it!
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 8:24 PM on Monday, February 20th, 2017
I have a pretty good BS meter as well. And I think OP is telling the truth. But,to those of you who don't, instead of speculation, tell a mod, and they will figure it out. In the meantime, I think kicking this person when they are down is unnecessary. If you don't believe him, tell a mod and stay off the thread.
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
Catula ( new member #53783) posted at 10:55 PM on Monday, February 20th, 2017
Dear Broken,
So sorry you are here. Echoing others, I know how overwhelmed and confused you are. Normally, depending on the circumstances I am pro-recovery. But this is a situation that I agree you should RUN, not walk to the nearest exit.
This started on your honeymoon! Who does that? I'll tell you, a heartless, souless narcissist who is only looking out for herself. UGH!
Please don't bring a child into her cesspool. You CAN START OVER. You said she's your "best friend and pretty". What is "pretty"about finding photo's of her sexual acts with someone else? A "best friend" is someone who will go to the ends of the earth to support, love and protect us. Are those her actions?
Please protect yourself and get out of her toxic orbit. There are lots of good women out there who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve. I hope my words have not hurt you. Sadly, it appears I, a total stranger, care more about your pain then your WW.
"True forgiveness is when you can say "Thank you for that experience."-Oprah Winfrey
Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 11:04 PM on Monday, February 20th, 2017
Not helpful
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"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 11:16 PM on Monday, February 20th, 2017
Having dead parents doesn't equate to having no family. Maybe his grandparents gave them the money for the house. Also, there are many reasons they may not have attended the destination wedding. Health issues. Or maybe they couldn't get time off of work. Or maybe they couldn't travel.
It seems the OP has been run off. I hope he finds support elsewhere.
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BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 12:04 AM on Tuesday, February 21st, 2017
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
iwanttoknow ( member #54264) posted at 1:09 AM on Tuesday, February 21st, 2017
Not much that I can say here that others haven't already said. My heart aches for you and I hope that you are thinking about all these comments that veteran SIers are offering up to you.
My thoughts are with you as you head into these upcoming days, weeks and months. Please post your questions and thoughts here to get advice for you to ponder. And listen to the advice that others are offering, even if you don't take each piece, at least listen and consider!
~iwanttoknow
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Dday - 8/30/2016
If you have nothing to hide, you hide nothing.......
goalong ( member #57352) posted at 5:15 AM on Tuesday, February 21st, 2017
I cannot believe these men. seriously I think this is a prank post. Newly married and allowing wife to hang around in bars til early hours and still not confronting after seeing all the goriness? Hope you have a family member you can confide who 
can put some sense into you.
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Wool94 ( member #53300) posted at 8:11 PM on Tuesday, February 21st, 2017
It doesn't have to be my decision if it's fake or not. I pray you can find some help for your self esteem.
She left you because your 20 lbs overweight? What? I'm probably 20 lbs overweight at least. That's really not that much. Hang in there and check in with us.
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D-Day #1: April 7, 2016
D-Day #2: May 21, 2016
D-Day #3: June 7, 2016
Me: 1975
Her:WW (amn8r) 1981
Son 2006
Daughter 2009
"God not only loves you, but He actually likes you. "-Stephen Hooks
"My faith is mine now."
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 3:40 AM on Wednesday, February 22nd, 2017
Calling someone a troll helps no one. If you have suspicions, contact one of the staff members so that we can look into it.
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
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