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Reconciliation :
Wife starting new job today...

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strugglebus ( member #55656) posted at 11:10 PM on Sunday, October 29th, 2017

Mojo sent! I will say that my H's affair happened when he wasn't required to be somewhere 8 hours a day so him getting a job was a comfort. Always a good idea to reevaluate boundaries when starting up a new job. I'm sure this is the beginning of something good!

While you are collecting recipes - if you have a crockpot, my favorite easy dinner is just to throw some chicken breasts in it with jar of whatever salsa y'all like (I like the verde esp) and then let it go for 8 hrs on low. Serve on tortillas.

You can add sliced peppers, onions or whatever you fancy.I like to put a lime cut in half in there personally. It's easy as pie and can be varied so you never get bored.

BS -DDay: 9/26/16- Double Betrayal

Happily reconciling.

Be True to your Word. Don't take things Personally. Don't Make Assumptions. Do Your Best.

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Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 11:13 PM on Sunday, October 29th, 2017

Mushrooms in chili...I've never had that before . Our daughter invited me for chili at their house last night...and it was delicious!! Her secret ingredient was brown sugar...and it enhanced the chili well .

A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)

I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!

From respect comes great love...sassylee

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 OrdinaryDude (original poster member #55676) posted at 12:42 AM on Monday, October 30th, 2017

The beer is what makes mine work, lol.

I was young and dumb and stayed with a cheater.

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 OrdinaryDude (original poster member #55676) posted at 12:45 AM on Monday, October 30th, 2017

On a side note, the wife will be starting CNA training in a couple of weeks instead of next year...they like her that much already.

I’m a little proud of her.

I was young and dumb and stayed with a cheater.

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:44 PM on Monday, October 30th, 2017

Neat!

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 4:59 PM on Monday, October 30th, 2017

NICE !!!

A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)

I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!

From respect comes great love...sassylee

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 OrdinaryDude (original poster member #55676) posted at 2:34 AM on Wednesday, November 15th, 2017

So she's a few weeks in and starting the training now...she loves it!

The only downside is her schedule for the time being doesn't mesh well with mine so we only see each other for an hour or so after she gets home and before I leave...but it's only temporary.

They seem to like her more everyday, but I'm not surprised at all...she is a caring and sweet person that is suited to this work, and she's easy on the eyes too, even in scrubs.

I was young and dumb and stayed with a cheater.

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dostl10 ( member #58597) posted at 2:46 AM on Wednesday, November 15th, 2017

Good stuff! I'm harsh on the eyes scrubs or not.

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 OrdinaryDude (original poster member #55676) posted at 2:56 AM on Wednesday, November 15th, 2017

Lol

I was young and dumb and stayed with a cheater.

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Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 3:23 AM on Wednesday, November 15th, 2017

Awesome update...thanks for sharing !!!

A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)

I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!

From respect comes great love...sassylee

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