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Jesusismyanchor ( member #58708) posted at 6:18 AM on Sunday, January 7th, 2018
Inattentive is not ok. Your needs are not being met. Many posters have mentioned a medical issue. What about en emotional or mental health issue? Do you think he could be struggling with any of these? Is there a history with that at all? Has he had any IC? I just have noticed these patterns with my WS at times and I think it is related. . He has also
Gained weight after Dday feeling bad about himself.
Something else I thought is could he do something else with you besides when out? Would you be flexible with that? You seemed very focused on the exercise. He does. It sound interested in that
Jeremiah 29:11- For I know the plans I have for you, plans to give you hope and a future
Flatlined123 (original poster member #35862) posted at 11:55 PM on Saturday, February 10th, 2018
So, update: After discussion with dr, trial and error, we discovered it was A: the med Adderall and B: H needed to lose weight.
I’m happy to report we’ve restarted MC, H is off that med and has started eating healthier & excising.
What a difference 😉❤️👍🏻
Me: BS H: WS4 kids DD #1 7-11-08DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.Started R in 12-09"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."
Cephastion ( member #51990) posted at 12:01 AM on Sunday, February 11th, 2018
Very glad to hear that...for the BOTH of you actually! 
BH-me / WW-(Pyrite)
Left Thanksgiving 2019 w/ unresolved childhood trauma and other general selfishness issues that she refuses to honestly address, resolve,& heal from.--"For where your wealth/treasure is, there will your heart be also."--Yeshua
demolishedinside ( member #47839) posted at 1:50 AM on Sunday, February 11th, 2018
BS - me/3 kids
DD - April 2015 / SA-Jan. 28, 2017
DD2- October 23, 2018
Divorced and happy
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 11:50 AM on Sunday, February 11th, 2018
Glad to hear a positive outcome. Hopefully things will continue to improve.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
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