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New Beginnings :
It's official. I'm back.

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 WhoTheBleep (original poster member #49504) posted at 3:11 PM on Monday, December 31st, 2018

Last night I had my first "first date" in 20 years. Beach Dad (see my thread below) asked me out, and I accepted. We talked nonstop for 4 hours. And a simple hug goodnight, followed by texting and laughing from our respective homes.

That is all.

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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Ripped62 ( member #60667) posted at 4:48 PM on Monday, December 31st, 2018

I am glad you had fun and enjoyed yourself.

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BrokenheartedUK ( member #43520) posted at 5:17 PM on Monday, December 31st, 2018

Awesome!!! What a great end to the year!!!

Me: BS
He cheated and then lied. Apparently cheaters lie. Huh. 13 months of false R. Divorced! 8/16 3 teenage kids
"The barn's burnt down
Now
I can see the moon"
-Mizuta Masahide

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Zamboni ( member #65496) posted at 6:34 PM on Monday, December 31st, 2018

Congrats Bleep for getting back in the saddle!

Me: BW
Him: WH Serial Cheater / NPD
Multiple affairs
Almost Divorced

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Furious1 ( member #42970) posted at 7:48 PM on Monday, December 31st, 2018

That is awesome!

BW (me): 46
2 adult kids
D-day: 10/4/13.
Divorced

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Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 8:06 PM on Monday, December 31st, 2018

How wonderful! What a nice way to bring in the new year!

Welcome back, and have loads of fun!

fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

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freetogonow ( member #57821) posted at 8:52 AM on Tuesday, January 1st, 2019

This put a smile on my face.

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I.will.survive ( member #34677) posted at 7:55 PM on Tuesday, January 1st, 2019

Oh that is definitely not all!!

Looking forward to this continued story....

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Chili ( member #35503) posted at 4:17 PM on Saturday, January 5th, 2019

Geez Louise - one takes a few days away to do the holiday thing, Bleep returns in full force with her swagger and a Beach Beau all in tow. I tell ya what. Blink and you'll miss it!

So so so happy for you that you are coming into your own. And going with the flow. Also sounds like you're not making any hard and fast rules for yourself in the process. Love it. See..."the before" won't always be a black curse hanging over your amazing spirit.

Way to go chica.

2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett

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CaliforniaNative ( member #60149) posted at 5:09 PM on Saturday, January 5th, 2019

You ARE back. Hopefully there is chemistry, but if not sounds like you met a new friend. Both are.great. You’re off to a good start this year!

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 WhoTheBleep (original poster member #49504) posted at 9:17 PM on Saturday, January 5th, 2019

Thanks all! CaliNative, not sure about the chemistry, yet. I wasn't feeling the kiss the first time. Going with my new honed Bleep gut. We've been texting all week, lots of laughs and things in common. We made a second "date?" (Get together) for Monday. Going for a bike ride. Just rolling with it for now, but I really like his mind and personality. He is UNlike STBX in every way that I can see so far. So there's that.

He's intelligent (an engineer) and kind of a nerd. That alone is a huge attraction for me. I'll keep you all posted.

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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BobPar ( member #62993) posted at 6:39 AM on Monday, January 7th, 2019

That is awesome Bleep!

DDay 1 (AP1) and 2 (AP2) 2015 DDay 3 (AP 3) and 4 (AP4) 2016There was some overlap with 3 and 4)False R 2016Suspect more from exWW

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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 11:48 AM on Monday, January 7th, 2019

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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