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GoldenR ( member #54778) posted at 5:30 AM on Saturday, February 23rd, 2019
I missed OP's second post...
Some of the posts I found to be rather insulting, and although I realize they were (probably) well intentioned...bite me. :)
My new favorite SI member! 
Clint (original poster member #11711) posted at 12:23 PM on Saturday, February 23rd, 2019
:)
For the positive posters..thank you.
IMO I've paid ALL the dues..now I will say and do whatever TF is good for me..and me alone
I still love my wife to a degree, but she will have to apply whatever lessons she has learned towards her next relationship.
You can forgive, but that doesnt mean you have to stay with them.
Some folks are simply NOT DESIGNED for adultery, and no amount of IC or marriage counseling is ever gonna change that simple fact. Ever. My only fault is I probably waited too long for that to dawn on me.
MODS..you can lock this up..Its been thoroughly beaten up from all sides :)
Hippo16 ( member #52440) posted at 1:42 PM on Saturday, February 23rd, 2019
Clint:
another poster:
Does she deserve a lifetime punishment for what she did?
Her punishment is her memory and the reality she brought into their lives.
There's no troubled marriage that can't be made worse with adultery."For a person with integrity, there is no possibility of being unhappy enough in your marriage to have an affair, but not unhappy enough to ask for divorce."
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