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KatieKat ( member #16690) posted at 5:55 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2019
Good advice! Please let her know we are all frustrated along with her!!! Sending hugs hugs & hope this drama ends. 💜
Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 7:55 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2019
((((Scooby)))))
I concur.
Stay safe, Scoobs...I'm so sorry the justice system has failed yet again. 
2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 12:46 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2019
Update about Scooby. From her son.
My mum is in hospital at the moment she was hit by a car while crossing the road earlier this week, the car didn’t stop they just drove off leaving my mum lying in the street covered in blood. She’s badly battered & very bruised with broken ribs, mum has been under police guard as my dad had been released last Friday, he has been picked up & arrested hundreds of miles away fleeing the country via ferry to France after being on the run.
Myself & my family are staying at her house. Hopefully she will be released tomorrow.
I’m sure my dad will get away with this again as he's got away with everything else so far. Myself my brothers & my sister don’t believe he is innocent even if he does have an alibi.
We’re not worried about ourselves but we are all scared stiff for her. Not just physically but mentally as well.
reading here a bit today i c how u help her.
From myself & my family we are very grateful she has your support.
[This message edited by Tallgirl at 6:47 PM, October 18th (Friday)]
Beachwalker ( member #70472) posted at 1:14 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2019
Son of Scooby: I am so very sorry to hear about your mum. That was a terrible thing to happen to her, and on top of everything else, I am certain she is overwhelmed, to say the least. We will be praying for you and your mother. Stay safe, you and all your family. Please post here as often as you can to keep us up to date on what’s going on.
KatyaCA ( member #41528) posted at 2:39 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2019
Since he was fleeing the country, I agree with you and your siblings. If he didn't do it personally, he set it up and got someone else to do it. The second option may be more likely because she survived. Either way, he is not innocent. He firmly believes he owns her and if he can't have her she needs to die.
She will never be safe while he is on the outside of a prison cell. You all need to get away from him permanently. He is not redeemable.
I will keep you all in my thoughts and please keep us informed on how she is recovering until she can share here herself.
nekonamida ( member #42956) posted at 5:15 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2019
Holly hell. We're all praying for you, Scooby.
Odonna ( member #38401) posted at 5:25 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2019
If there is any evidence that he set up the hit and run.... the prosecutors and your lawyer should be all over this now. I am an attorney (in a different field) and I tell you this really smells.
((((Scooby)))))
Shockedmom ( member #44708) posted at 10:04 PM on Saturday, October 19th, 2019
Sending prayers for a swift and complete recovery. Please find a therapist to help deal with the horror of this latest attack.
Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 11:54 AM on Monday, October 21st, 2019
((((Scooby)))) - wishing you a speedy recovery.
Scooby's DS - thank you for letting us know about your mum. I (and I'm sure many, many others on SI) will be praying for her - and for you and your family. I cannot imagine the pain that all of you are enduring.
2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
FLYAKITE ( new member #58204) posted at 2:03 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2019
Dear Scooby and Son,
This is a horrifying update. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. May you somehow find peace and safety from this dangerous man. It's hard with little kids to get to therapy sometimes but I hope, too, you and your siblings are getting some help in processing the shit storm that has wrecked your family. Thank God for an amazingly strong, kind, and loving mother! And for great kids =) Please keep us posted as you can.
nekonamida ( member #42956) posted at 4:17 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2019
Thinking of you today, Scooby. Please update us when you can so that we know you're okay.
TheBrokenWife ( new member #71973) posted at 2:31 PM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2019
Scoobydoo, I'm so sorry you're living this hell. Until people have been in this exact situation, they can't even begin to imagine the rollercoaster of emotions. I am only new here but also not brand new to a cheating Husband, unfortunately!
I personally re-lived the trauma of seeing photos and videos of my own Husband with someone else over and over in my mind, on loop until it eventually started to fade. I am not in a good position now to offer advice or hope for that matter but wanted to say you're not alone. Keep reaching out & talking to people who can help to re-build you x
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 4:36 PM on Thursday, October 31st, 2019
Hey Scooby. Just wanted you to know I've been thinking about you.
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
Buffer ( member #71664) posted at 12:15 AM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2019
Real men don’t abuse women, physically, mentally, emotionally, financially or in silence.
You are worth too much respect ✊
Cyber hugs
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