"Karma" hit xhole AND his equally married ow:
Yes, xhole abandoned - literally - our just a few short weeks shy of fourteen yrs marriage for a very much married but frighteningly promiscuous "woman" barely a couple yrs older than xhole's oldest daughter.
Ow was 24. A 9th grade dropout. "Mother" to a precocious 11 yr old girl. A many yrs long off & on meth addiction. And a penchant for lying nonstop as well as making the neighborhood whore look basic by comparison.
After around four yrs of furtively meeting, getting high, fucking & hell only knows what else, ow began to seriously pressure xhole into leaving me; with the kiss of death to our already shaky & crumbling marriage being ow told her adulterous schmoopie that, QUOTE, he ".didn't have to work IF he DIDN'T WANT TO.."
Still very much married AND heavily pregnant (with TWINS!) by MY still very much MARRIED HUSBAND, ow all but drove down here like a bat out of hell, to help whisk her equally married boyfriend off to their supposedly shiny happy new insta-family life in Lala Land.
I still quietly chuckle & smh whenever I think of just HOW were these two adulterous dirtbags going to have & enjoy their shiny happy new magically responsibility-free life on just ow's income & whatever financial scraps that xhole brought, if *any*, to the table?
Truly, these cheaters "logic" defies IRL logic! 
ANYWHOO.....
Fast forward a couple yrs after I divorced xhole, I was presented with irrefutable, absolutely IMPOSSIBLE to LIE about proof that xhole & ow's "relationship" ended in what can only be described as epic made for daytime trashy talk show fashion. Yes, think The Jerry Springer Show. Or, better yet, due to ow's near constant lying AND nonstop whoring around combined with understandably questionable paternity 
, yep, their "relationship" ended in absolutely spectacularly ugly fashion & I have 5+ pages of police *AND* court documents to prove it! 
According to police & court documents & within the time I began the legal process of divorcing xhole, apparently xhole began abusing, as in hitting/physically BEATING the 2-5 MONTHS OLD twin babies that ow very DELIBERATELY became pregnant with while xhole & I were still very much MARRIED *AND* living together as such!
Yes, literally within weeks of their births, ow's "soulmate schmoopie" began hitting AND even BEATING on their babies & instead of getting off her ugly fat drug addled ass & calling 911 AND/OR grabbing her/their babies & making a rocket speed beeline for either the nearest police station &or crisis shelter, what does ow decide & choose to do? Well, according to Dane County court documents, ow freely & dare I say happily continued staying involved, LIVING with AND sleeping with her in the process of being divorced live-in lover!
Police AND court documents are explicit in plain ENglish clear in enumerating that there were not just one or even two but three, repeat, AT LEAST *THREE* separate instances of child abuse; all between October 1, 2012 & May 13, 2013!
Without looking @ any papers, I can't remember specifically why, but for whatever reason, xhole & ow both took the babies to Madison Children's Hospital where "whatever" xhole AND ow were telling doctors & other medical staff were markedly inconsistent with whatever indications of physical abuse that doctors & other hospital staff were finding on the babies.
The paperwork doesn't say but apparently xhole & ow gathered up the twins & were allowed to return home where state child welfare caseworkers accompanied with police intervened, took custody of the babies & just as immediately arrested xhole, taking him to county jail; whereupon xhole was booked in on THREE separate Class H *FELONY* charges of INTENTIONAL Child Abuse/Harm To A Child
Ow, of course, chose the coward's way out & as part of a plea deal, gave up both custody of AND parental rights to her/their boy & girl babies; with the twins becoming instant wards of the state & quickly put into foster care.
Bc the twins were very much minors when chole began abusing them, I still know next to nothing about their case except that police helped physically confiscate them from the home, that the state of Wisconsin legally terminated BOTH xhole's AND ow's parental rights within a matter of a surprisingly few short weeks.
I still don't know whether the babies were adopted by family members in either cheaters' families or whether the babies were quietly legally adopted behind closed doors with their names & identities eventually being changed since any &or ALL [legal] ties to their biological "parents" were PERMANENTLY severed.
It's my understanding that it'll be at least another decade or so before either or both of the babies are able to attempt to locate either bio parents. I don't know whether or IF it's even remotely possible for xhole or ow to locate the babies much less have any kind of "relationship" with them. But knowing from these Freedom Of Information Access Act acquired documents, I believe it's safe to say that neither xhole NOR their skank excuse of an incubator "mother" will EVER be able to find much less have ANY kind of "relationship" with these babies EVER again.
Ow's then preteen daughter will be 18 sometime this year.
Just *how* this young woman's "mother" was able to keep both shared custody of AND rights to this daughter from a failed teenage "romance" is still a head scratching mystery.
I think the ONLY objective way that I've been able to somewhat process this little bit of knowledge is by keeping firmly in mind what a former PTSD therapist explained - that OW was able to keep shared custody of AND legal rights to her then 11 yr old daughter simply bc this daughter was neither physically present when xhole began hitting her weeks old half siblings as well as ow's preteen daughter simply was NOT a [literal] target of xhole's wrath.
From what little I *do* know, ow's now almost 18 yr old daughter has some kind of semi involved "relationship" with her bio father & the woman ow's ex husband married in 2014.
Beyond an extremely small handful of basic "honorable mention" posts by ow, I'm largely clueless about any of the dynamics of these relationships. I can only imagine.
Beyond these things, literally a single late night phone call from xhole back in 2013 & a brief seconds long chance visual encounter of xhole in a box store's large parking lot, I know little else of/about xhole except that he has a GoFundMe page; made in classic narcissistic attempts to get unsuspecting others to financially subsidize his ridiculously expensive still non paying hobby disguised as "living history." As it is, I think only a couple individuals have donated a total of around $60ish to xhole's fund. 
I stumbled across xhole's GFM page in the process of looking for an IRL friend's daughter's fundraising crafts page.
As for the STILL publicly shameless, STILL LYING ow? Ow has gone on to move around a few times. Job hop. Bed hop. Jumping on & off a seemingly endless merry-go-round of strange new locations, beds & men.
Ow eventually slithered her way back north, settling not far from where she lived for several years prior. Again, STILL job hopping & STILL very much LYING... ...but now ow still shares custody of & visitation with her now almost 18 yr old daughter & has been "engaged" for several years to a guy that I used to frequently be asked if he was a MtF trans
I ALWAYS replied to those that inquired that I neither knew NOR personally cared so as long as ow stays well clear away from ME & my life - bc this vile monster helped my then HUSBAND endanger both MY married AND MY health AND she did so REPEATEDLY 
Ow is STILL very much on Facebook as well as Instagram, Snapchat, Tumblr, LinkedIn as well as AT LEAST 4 other social media/pic sharing sites.
To call the ow in my sich an attention whore is a gross understatement.
All of these things I shared in this post here are what, beyond ANY shadow of reasonable doubt, that I *do* know.
I guess it can easily be said that "karma" or just plain cold hard life consequences come to us all.
Some on little cat feet. Some wearing Frankenstein boots or in the form of being time to time sideswiped by the proverbial Karma Bus.
And other times, as was/is my exH & ow's cases, so called "karma" came to them in the form of a mushroom cloud of legal AND personal consequences that continue to play out to this very moment.
And just so anyone doesn't believe me & thinks I've made all of this up bc I'm the cliche bitter jealous xW that just won't let go...all I can say is, genuinely, THANK GOD for the state of Wisconsin's Freedom Of Information Access ACT *AND* a many yrs long implicitly trusted Army buddy. 
Hopefully, as time goes by, xhole AND ow suffer even MORE life AND legal consequences of their monstrous selfishness.
My xH AND ow really ARE cheating dirtbags. Of the absolute lowest kind.
Thank you for both allowing me to vent & share this.
((virtual hugs)) from someone who survived divorcing a malignant narcissist.....
