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God I really love a good karma story. I've got one:

Local to where I used to live, there was a realtor who came home one day and announced that he was leaving his wife for her best friend. BS takes to her bed and was inconsolable. Eventually, BS and OBS start to meet for mutual support. They fall in love and when the marital home is sold during the D, she and he buy a cottage together in the country. OBS and AP get divorced and she was very generous in her settlement to her previous spouse because she has the next, more successful man, lined up.

The realtor and his AP get engaged, because they are in lurve. Nevermind that the D isn't final yet, this relationship is really really special and they know they're going to wind up together. They go on a romantic ski holiday in the French Alps. Realtor is killed in an avalanche. And since he wasn't officially D'ed and since he hadn't changed his will, his entire estate goes to his BS.

BS and OBS get married and live happily ever after.

AP... gets nothing.

A good friend just found out her H is a serial cheater - having cheated the entire marriage.

She finally decides there is nothing left and tells him she wants a D. The serial cheater refuses to divorce, move out, or even acknowledge his serial cheating. Just keeps saying I want to R.

The BS/wife refuses to reconcile. He (the CH) refuses to accept the marriage is over.

She just had him served D papers and he is losing his mind. He is blaming her and “why is she so against him”.

He never thought she would stand up to him. Karma!!!

..best karma is "AP gets long, slow, painful death as his terminal brain tumor destroyed one system after the other, finally taking his life at 57. He knew that his betrayals were deserving of the death penalty and his second wife, two sons in their teens, his elderly parents and his younger brother knew also that his betrayals had consequences."

Just when he probably thought he had the world by the tail, along comes God with the bad news.

" penalty for sins forbidden in the bible, adultery and coveting another man's wife... death and you get to go straight to HELL !! Do not pass 'GO" Do not get to retire, do not get to see sons grow up, marry, have grand children, enjoy all the fruits of your labour... nothing ...and he knew it!

Now I get to visit him and piss on his grave; exactly what I told him I'd do when I confronted him in his law office way back in 1987. Spit in his face as well, then I trashed the entire top of his desk onto the floor. I don't know who the other person was in his office at the time. He just watched!

I had to wait 18+ years for the karma bus to run over this piece of shit, but the driver in my case was the TOP MAN, the BIG CHEESE, the HEAD HONCHO... and He knows how to drive...

smy

[This message edited by somanyyears at 8:17 AM, July 28th (Sunday)]

I’ve told this one before. Ny friend married her HS boyfriend. Married 10 years (no kids). She finds out he has one OW with his child, another OW plus a third OW/fiancée. The fiancée is very young (early 20s) and naive.

My friend D the CH. gets everything b/c his job was in jeopardy b/c he used his job to pick up the other women. Plus one of the OW was his partner (the one with the OC) and that was a department no-no.

The Cheater marries the fiancée. They have a baby. My friend gets a call from the Second Wife one day that the guy is cheating in the 2nd wife. And never got over the first wife b/c he calls the second wife by the first wife's name.

Karma!

A guy I knew in college was a serial cheater on his GF. No one in college ever met her. He claims his parents wanted him to marry her for religious reasons.

After they were married a few years (no college friends invited to the wedding b/c we all knew he had other GFs in college) - he comes home one day to his waterfront condo and it is empty.

His wife found out about his serial cheating and took everything. And threw his clothes and personal items away. He had to go and tell his family (who never thought boy genius was ever wrong) what happened.

I don’t feel bad b/c my H worked for him and his family and they cheated him out of a lot of money.

Love all these stories. Karma is real....

Short and sweet - husband's OW of four years house burned down. She and family got out alive. I don't feel bad for her but awful for her kids. Ugh. Am I a horrible person?

[This message edited by adriverswife at 12:14 AM, July 31st (Wednesday)]

I don't really believe in "Karma," but I do believe in consequences for a lifetime of shitty choices.

Xhole always believed if he just ignores things long enough and avoids immediate consequences, everything just eventually goes away. I spent over two decades cleaning up his messes because of this mindset.

Fast forward to D and me no longer in the role of being his life janitor.

* Within two years he had three default court judgments from debt collectors and they want their money so they are constantly trying to find him and where he may be working (they are still unpaid today).

* He owes the IRS and they are garnishing his Social Security though the max 15% garnishment isn't even enough to cover interest and penalties so the debt continues to grow.

* He's in default on student loans.

* He has been blacklisted from his lifelong profession after burning so many bridges and pissing people off so no one will hire him.

* His baby mama #2 in another state is still trying to slap him with a paternity suit to get CS (don't think current wifey knows about that dirty little secret).

* So many people have tried to serve him papers he put a big ol' "No Tresspassing Violators Will Be Prosecuted" sign by his front door (covering house number in another evasion attempt) to try to scare people away (had to drop something off for his mother about six months ago and saw it...and laughed).

And it just goes on and on and on. His life is just one giant shit show and it's all because of his own choices. He's 64 now and STILL hasn't figured it out!

My cousin cheated on his BS and left for the OW. Their relationship imploded after 2 years and he got busted for buying narcotics for her off the streets and risked his pharmacy career for a whore. They got divorced after 2 years. He is broke and can't work as a pharmacist due to his license being suspended. OW lost everything too, A real love story!

Anyone read the book The Last Mrs Parrish by Liv Constantine?

Good book. That’s all I’m saying.

I remember this one from my godfather when I was a teen.

My godfather had a friend (fellow volunteer fire fighter) who cheated on his wife constantly. A lot of people knew. Small town kind of stuff.

Anyway one morning the wife sticks her hand in his coat pocket and finds matches and she says “so who is the blonde you were with last night?”

The H spills his guts to the wife about his affair. He assumed someone in our small town told his wife. He thought maybe my uncle/godfather.

Turns out the wife was joking around - she had no idea. No one told her anything.

[This message edited by The1stWife at 10:05 AM, August 1st (Thursday)]

The1stWife your recommendation had be go to my Library app and click "Place on Hold" for both the Audiobook and the Kindle version.

And...I have a funny feeling I won't be disappointed.

Shortly after DDay 1996, CH came by the hospital to have lunch with me. After we sat in the cafeteria, the hospital Marketing Director came and sat with us. I (being the asshole I am) told her hubby was just busted for cheating on me with D***** F** W*****. The Marketing Director looks shocked, says she knows OW, and that OW was FIRED from the college they worked at for having sex with a bunch of Freshmen. The parents of said Freshmen complained, resulting in the college firing her. The look on CH’s face was priceless! His “angel” had been busted for being so easy! LMAO! It was epic!

20yearsago. Priceless!!!!!

I have a few karma stories but my favorite one is this:

My FWH's BFF had just gotten married. The WW, BS and FWH all worked together in a small town in the south where everyone knows everyone & everything. They are all in the medical field, FYI. The WW was having an affair with not one, not two but three (possible 4) co-workers. On this night, she was working a night shift with AP #1 and the AP #2 got wind of how WW was acting and took off work to go to the station they were at. He also called AP#3 to go with him. I don't know if #2 & #3 knew of one another. They get to the station and catch them literally in the act. AP#2 lost his mind, punched Ap#1 with AP#3 had to contact the supervisor....Who just happened to be the BS. Ended up with WW, AP#1 getting fired out right, AP#2 and #3 reprimanded for taking off work and AP#2 was off on unpaid leave for a week for fighting. AP#2 & #3 ended up switching to another agency bc the BS was their supervisor. I don't know if they divorced bc my FWH left that agency (bc I didn't like how close he was to the WW - I've never been able to prove anything but I think I know)

[This message edited by MamaDragon at 10:53 AM, August 5th (Monday)]

Thought this thread needed a little boost. Love reading these stories, especially when I'm feeling really bitter.

My neighbor was married a long time ago. He cheated and they divorced. She was awarded $3,500 per month alimony forever. Her ex husband wants to retire (he’s about 75 now), but can’t afford to because of the alimony payments.

My neighbor is perfectly happy letting him miss out on retirement. Good for her!

There is the famous case on Long Island NY. Wealthy Hamptons guy Ted Ammon is killed by his wife’s lover Daniel Pelosi. He of course maintains his innocence. He was the contractor working on the home renovations.

He and the wife Gennerosa Ammon have an affair. It was a bitter divorce process. The husband is bludgeoned to death before the D is final. Wife is not tried as an accomplice. But many believe she was involved. No proof there so draw your own conclusions. She was never charged b/c she died before charges were brought against her.

She ends up dying (I believe from cancer). The AP Daniel Pelosi is in jail - eventually convicted of murder.

And the poor children are left with no parents. How very sad.

Because of greed and money and an affair.

[This message edited by The1stWife at 9:33 PM, August 24th (Saturday)]

I have been waiting ..... and waiting...

Wh's Ap's sister works with our daughter. Well, tonight she told my daughter that ap tried some stupid stunt involving moving vehicles (this woman is 34, grow tf up!!) and is now in the hospital with 3 brain bleeds having just regained consciousness after a full day of being out cold. The only way I could muster any sympathy was to imagine her children crying and being upset about it... i didnt really WANT her to get hurt but Im not broken up about it either.

They are just known for their stupid choices arent they???

I just read this story and apparently it is true. Hours before the wedding the bride gets a text from the OW with copies of the texts (X/rated) between the fiancé and OW.

She decided to go ahead with the wedding. Doesn’t call or text the groom. Just moves forward as planned.

Gets to the altar and the bride turns and faces the friends and family. She says “there won’t be a wedding today.” She then starts reading the text messages between her fiancé and OW.

The groom is mortified and runs out of the church. His parents ran after him.

There was no wedding. Just a public humiliation ceremony for the groom.

[This message edited by The1stWife at 7:22 AM, September 5th (Thursday)]

I guess I have a karma story in the making. You can read my history in my profile if you don’t know me. Anyway, DD has announced to her mom (my ex) that she wants to come live with Sunshine, me, and the new little Sunshine in Nashville when we move.