Topic is Sleeping.
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 4:13 AM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2019
Hope you have a wonderful day! 
[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 10:14 PM, July 22nd (Monday)]
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 4:18 AM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2019
Oh Happy Daaaay to Yoooouuuuu!
Have a most wonderful one.
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 1:55 PM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2019
Happy Birthday!!! I hope you have a wonderful day. 
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 2:11 PM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2019
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
demolishedinside ( member #47839) posted at 3:41 PM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2019
Happy Birthday! I hope it’s wonderful!
BS - me/3 kids
DD - April 2015 / SA-Jan. 28, 2017
DD2- October 23, 2018
Divorced and happy
Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 3:46 PM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2019
Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 4:13 PM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2019
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 4:22 PM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2019
Happy Birthday!!!
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:45 PM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2019
Thank you all.
The day is looking good. Son and GS are visiting. Had a great bike ride yesterday (so it wouldn't interfere with their visit today) and will probably get 1 or 2 more in before the leave.
Dinner out tonight where dessert will be a cake that is almost as good as BR's IRL creations.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:47 AM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2019
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 2:26 AM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2019
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
Wool94 ( member #53300) posted at 3:32 AM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2019
D-Day #1: April 7, 2016
D-Day #2: May 21, 2016
D-Day #3: June 7, 2016
Me: 1975
Her:WW (amn8r) 1981
Son 2006
Daughter 2009
"God not only loves you, but He actually likes you. "-Stephen Hooks
"My faith is mine now."
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 11:43 AM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2019
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 11:54 AM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2019
Hope you had a wonderful day!
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 4:18 AM on Thursday, July 25th, 2019
Happy, Happy Belated Birthday Sisoon!!
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 11:13 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2019
BH(me)72(now); XWW 64; M 42 yrsDDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW 4 years; "dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, liesSeparated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020
foreverlabeled ( member #52070) posted at 10:51 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2019
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:01 AM on Saturday, July 27th, 2019
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
cocoplus5nuts ( member #45796) posted at 1:20 AM on Sunday, August 4th, 2019
I'm rather late to this. I've not been on this forum before.
Happy belated birthday, sisoon! You provide so much wisdom and compassion on this site. I very much appreciate your presence.
Me(BW): 1970
WH(caveman): 1970
Married June, 2000
DDay#1 June 8, 2014 EA
DDay#2 12/05/14 confessed to sex before polygraph
Status: just living my life
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 3:41 AM on Sunday, August 4th, 2019
Happy Birthday to one of my favorite SIers!
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
Topic is Sleeping.
