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susieque2 ( member #49694) posted at 8:40 PM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2019
Beautiful update --- thrilled for you Ohfor!!!!
We are all spiritual beings having a human experience!
Thanksgiving2016 ( member #63462) posted at 8:52 PM on Saturday, November 2nd, 2019
Yours is the most inspirational and authentic story I have ever read. Congratulations.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:45 AM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2019
Congratulations!!! You deserve the best and you got it!!!
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:45 AM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2019
Congratulations!!! You deserve the best and you got it!!!
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
GrayShades ( member #59967) posted at 1:00 AM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2019
I don't post often, and never on Ohfor's threads, but I wanted to add my congratulations. Ohfor, you've been an inspiration to many of us with your eloquence and positivity. Sending positive vibes to your corner of the world, including much gratitude for what you've contributed to your world but also mine and many others.
Me: 50 on Dday
WH: Turned 48 the day before Dday
Dday: 05/16/17 One son, now young adult.
Newlifeisgreat ( member #71308) posted at 2:31 AM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2019
Congratulations!!!
I have read your various threads, and you have helped countless people get through infidelity by using you as an example of how it should be handled. It is fantastic to read how your life has become the fantastic ly that all betrayed spouses hope for. Congratulations once again.
(Wish it would be possible if Ohforanewme could post one photo of his wedding party)
Betrayed Spouse. She cheated and I filed immediately upon discovering. She never even suspected that I knew until the moment she was served with reason being Adultery. Divorced: Sept, 2018. VERY happy with new life, 0 regrets
Newlifeisgreat ( member #71308) posted at 2:38 AM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2019
Probably less than twelve hours from now!!!
😊
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Betrayed Spouse. She cheated and I filed immediately upon discovering. She never even suspected that I knew until the moment she was served with reason being Adultery. Divorced: Sept, 2018. VERY happy with new life, 0 regrets
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 2:54 AM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2019
OhFor...just incredible. I'm crying tears of joy for you. What a beautiful wedding story. I can even hear the choir. Love is grand, isn't it?
ODonna, thank you for sharing.
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
squid ( member #57624) posted at 3:21 AM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2019
Such wonderful news. Congrats, ohfor!!!
Thank you, Odonna for sharing!
BH
D-Day 2.19.17
Divorced 12.10.18
This isn’t what any of us signed up for. But it is the hand that we have been dealt. Thus, we must play it.
tiredofcrying59 ( member #56180) posted at 3:30 AM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2019
I remember Ohfor's thoughtful posts when I was active here.
congratulations to the happy couple, and I hope the health improves quickly!
BW
Me-59
Him-57
M-33 yrs, not that I "celebrate" it
D-day-10/30/16 2mo.PA w/COW attempting R
new news- like a 5 year A w/COW, no longer attempting R. What am I, an idiot?
Getting on with life, without him.
Odonna (original poster member #38401) posted at 7:42 AM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2019
OhFor’s gift of language will be lost to us soon, I am afraid. But not today! Today we only have joy!
Shockedmom ( member #44708) posted at 12:47 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2019
What a picture he has painted with his words. Sheer joy flows from this lovely gentleman. Thank you for sharing Odonna. This was truly a gift.
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 12:49 AM on Monday, November 4th, 2019
Congratulations!! This update makes me smile for you.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
Odonna (original poster member #38401) posted at 11:04 AM on Monday, November 4th, 2019
He is still in the hospital. I am very glad MMS moved up the wedding.
I believe he is still reading here....
JanetS ( member #2766) posted at 1:33 PM on Monday, November 4th, 2019
If you read this Ohforanewme, know that your beautiful words over the last couple of years have inspired and encouraged many people. Probably most of those people don't actually engage in your threads, but read and take the words to heart.
Your love journey, once you recovered from the infidelity, was one of the most beautiful stories I've ever followed. MMS has come alive in our minds with your beautiful words you've used to describe her. Your kids (now 3) have your amazing kindness to guide them through their lives.
Your life has much meaning, to so many. God Bless You.
Charity411 ( member #41033) posted at 2:20 PM on Monday, November 4th, 2019
I am one of those you have inspired. You've taught me to see the everyday things around me with renewed appreciation for their beauty and meaning. You have been a gift. Congratulations to you and your wife.
babypuke ( member #56585) posted at 7:13 PM on Monday, November 4th, 2019
OhFor congratulations!!! A lovely new wife and family!, love in your life!!, and yes we here love you too!!!
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 11:32 PM on Monday, November 4th, 2019
Ohfor,
You have such a gift of words. Thru your words I have been able to travel this journey with you, and "see" all the wonders you have described.
Sending you prayers and strength as you step into the next part of your journey, with your wonderful wife, and amazing children.
Thank you for letting us all ride along with you.
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
ILINIA ( member #39836) posted at 3:47 AM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
Congratulations Ohfor! I am also one who followed your story from JFO to Divorce to New Beginnings.
Your writing is beautifully addicting and you made me long for South Africa along with all the other amazing places you traveled.
But what I really loved about your posts is that no matter what extraordinary location you were in, you would highlight what really mattered in life like the sitting together watching a sunset, having a dance party, or sharing a meal with your family.
Also, can I just say, thank goodness the New Beginning folks discouraged that short-lived nanny "thing", as MMS is the real deal. 
Thank your for being part of the community that no one wants to belong too!
Odonna (original poster member #38401) posted at 5:24 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
Yeah, the “Bulgaria Debacle” was his only serious misstep along the way. At least he was honest about it all! And quickly insightful to see the mess he almost stepped in. Makes me chuckle.
His kids have always been his life’s work and joy, and they must be going through such anguish now. I know they have a solid extended family and support network, but losing such a great dad will affect them the rest of their lives. I lost my mother when I was a child, so I know.
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