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pureheartkit ( member #62345) posted at 2:18 PM on Saturday, November 16th, 2019
one of the most amazing things ever created...the human mind... and it switches off just like that.
Thank you everyone for your wisdom and healing.
keet ( member #72019) posted at 3:40 AM on Sunday, November 17th, 2019
So this is where I'm going to have to re-start the inquisition with WH. I'm only 1 month 2 weeks since D-day. He says they used a condom. Well when we dated 100 years ago, his idea of using a condom was to put one on once he "really needed it." Well hells no to that one. I was more of a fort knox girl, so I insisted that the condom go on before any viruses could be swapped. If he used his old standard, then he fucked her a little, put the condom on, then came.
He already agreed to be tested for STDs.
I'm going to too.
But I want to know what he really did. 
I can't believe I've waited this long to get tested. Denial sucks.
Married 2000; DDay Oct 3, 2019; WH EA 2012; WH month-long PA 2019; 2 kids, now high school and college (neither know).
Resulted in complex PTSD
pureheartkit ( member #62345) posted at 4:35 AM on Sunday, November 17th, 2019
I'm sorry Keet. None of this is easy to go through.
Thank you everyone for your wisdom and healing.
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 5:52 AM on Sunday, November 17th, 2019
Xhole always preached birth control to the kids, especially DS. His favorite phrase was to always tell DS "no glove, no love."
The same man who has had at least two OCs (that I know of) with two different OW.
Stupid, yes, but more of the King of Hypocrisy. Do what I say, not what I do.
I did ask him one time if he really understands how babies are made, dripping with sarcasm. The look on his face was priceless. STIs were a whole other sarcastic quip. 🙄
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
cocoplus5nuts ( member #45796) posted at 12:56 PM on Sunday, November 17th, 2019
I did ask him one time if he really understands how babies are made, dripping with sarcasm. The look on his face was priceless. STIs were a whole other sarcastic quip
It's so funny when they get a glimpse of just how stupid they are. I asked my fch more than once how stupid he wanted me to think he was. The idiocy coming out of his mouth was astounding. I don't think he realized how bad he was making himself look.
Me(BW): 1970
WH(caveman): 1970
Married June, 2000
DDay#1 June 8, 2014 EA
DDay#2 12/05/14 confessed to sex before polygraph
Status: just living my life
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