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So What Do You Want For Christmas?

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Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 3:04 PM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2019

Unrealistic All the family together at my house at Christmas.

Probable A small blue and gold kintsugi bowl

Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.

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stolenyears ( member #65758) posted at 8:59 PM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2019

Unrealistic - a 1970 Chevelle SS with a big block 454 in Malibu Blue with white SS stripes.

Unrealistic - for my neighbor battling cancer to win her battle.

Realistic - a new Astros hat

Probable A small blue and gold kintsugi bowl

Got a kintsugi bowl for my fWW wife as she has been pretty remarkable in her transformation. Never thought I would actually buy something from Etsy...

Me: BH
Her: fWW
Married: 30 years, kids 26, 23 and 16
DDay: 5-24-17, multiple APs
Current status: In Recovery

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somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 9:17 PM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2019

..wishing and hoping that Phoenix1 and Followtheriver get BOTH of their wishes.

smy

I suppose Santa could, if I've been really good, put a DeTomaso Pantera in my driveway...any year will do!!

[This message edited by somanyyears at 3:22 PM, December 11th (Wednesday)]

trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!

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Marie2792 ( member #44958) posted at 3:02 PM on Saturday, December 14th, 2019

Unrealistic: Vacation with kids and hubby to St Barth’s to visit my cousin

Realistic: a few biographies that I have been wanting to read

Me: BS,48 (41 at dday)Him: WS, 56 (49 at dday)Married 27 years, together 30 Dday : 9/9/14 3 week PA

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Questioningall ( member #43959) posted at 5:18 AM on Sunday, December 15th, 2019

The realistic and unrealistic blur together this year. My top two wishes:

A job for my husband that supports the family. (He’s currently unemployed.)

Also, my dad broke his hip on Thanksgiving and he’s in rehab. He also has Parkinson’s. It would be lovely if he were walking and able to function well enough to go home.

I’d also like the newest Lynn Kurland book, the Prince of Souls.

Me-BS 57
Him-WS 57 Sorrowfulmate
Married 30 years, 5 kids
Dday #1 12/12 He made up a ONS
Dday #2. 3/14 EAs, 3 ONS, 2 LTA

Buttercup: We'll never survive.
Westley: Nonsense. You're only saying that because no one ever has.

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Adlham ( member #53358) posted at 5:43 AM on Sunday, December 15th, 2019

Unrealistic: a new spine. Why, oh why can we not do spine transplants haha

Realistic: count me among the fuzzy sock lovers brigade! Also, the latest coloring book by Kirby Rosanes! Need to stock up for my next surgery!

There is NO need to have that “one last conversation” with a toxic individual in your life.” The closure will come when you look deeper inside yourself. It’s not your job to fix someone when they are unwilling to fix themselves.

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Emotionalhell ( member #39902) posted at 3:04 PM on Sunday, December 15th, 2019

Unrealistic- for cheater boy to be truly remorseful and take responsibility for his actions 😬

To have the ability to quit my job and rescue dogs.

Realistically there are some weight lose gadgets and clothing I would like.

ETA: to walk into a perfectly clean house and supper cooked just once lol

[This message edited by Emotionalhell at 9:08 AM, December 15th (Sunday)]

Me BS x2. 50ish Divorced WH #1. IHS with wayward #2 Dday #1 Oct. 2014Dday # 2 August 2018. Dday #3 December 17th.

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