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Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 6:08 PM on Thursday, January 30th, 2020
Sorry dude. I'm going to be straight and brief.
Run. She showed you who she is. Believe her.
IMHO - she wants the best of both worlds. You are her back up plan. She wants you to be the "bad guy" and end things.
Run. I am sorry for your loss. You are better than this.
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
Dismayed2012 ( member #49151) posted at 4:29 PM on Friday, January 31st, 2020
You hurt her when you pushed away and didn't want to get serious. She's now responded by hurting you intentionally. Now that you're showing your co-dependency and begging her back, she realizes that you're weak. Also, your response or lack thereof to the blowjob is making her think that you're not the man she thought you were. Through your actions, you don't value commitment very highly. You've failed both tests. As for her, she's failed the commitment test as well as the revenge test. If you stay with this woman you can be assured that anytime she perceives that you've wronged her, she's going to do the same back to you. This is not the type of person that you want to have a relationship with. She's proven that she's mentally f'd up. Please don't f up more lives by having kids with her and even better, work on your co-dependency and find someone better to spend your time with; someone with some actual moral character. Take care of yourself.
Infidelity sucks. Freedom rocks.
redfish ( member #71426) posted at 4:50 PM on Friday, January 31st, 2020
(I've been married and it ended horribly after being cheated on and left with all the responsibilities)
Your last marriage ended because she cheated why stay with another woman who cheats?
Get out of this relationship, there are plenty of women out there.
I think you should look back at how your marriage ended and how you handled that. Add that story to this thread. What responsibilities were you left with? Did the courts assign these or did you give them up?
Thumos ( member #69668) posted at 6:38 PM on Friday, January 31st, 2020
Here let me script this for you:
“Have a nice life.” Then block her everywhere.
"True character is revealed in the choices a human being makes under pressure. The greater the pressure, the deeper the revelation, the truer the choice to the character's essential nature."
BH: 50, WW: 49 Wed: Feb.'96 DDAY1: 12.20.16 DDAY2: 12.23.19
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