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I would have to say that she is confusing indigent with a whole lot of things. I was able to get screenshots of trip for someone who is indigent so I can show them to the judge. I will go to the judge and no deals. She won’tg get any alimony or anything like that according to my lawyer as I took a job at the beginning of the year where my gross income is a lot less. Similar to hers. Before I even filed so I didn’t change after filling. I completed my aver to her counter petition this morning and will run it over to the clerk first thing. When she gets back she’ll have that paperwork looking at her along with me being out of the house. I’m not abandoning as I will leave some of my items there and take video of what is left behind. The wheels are turning in the process and I know there is still more to do but I have come to grips with my situation. The support here has been just what I needed.

I'm glad you found support. Hope you have some support from family and friends as well.

It sounds you like you have a moderately positive outlook on the terms of the D, which is good. Often BS's are screwed by the system after their treatment by their WS's. I hope it works out smoothly. Hopefully your WW will be given a wake up call by the judge at one of the early hearings and you can settle things quickly.

Hopefully I can get all of this behind me sooner than later. I think just now my mind has started to relax around this issue some. It’s not weighing down on me like it was. I’m feeling good. I’m kind of in a limbo state until all of this is done. But right now, I’m cool with that.

Rynoz, you still with us?