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Wintergarden ( member #70268) posted at 10:08 PM on Thursday, April 30th, 2020
I understand where you are coming from. It's natural when you feel rejected to want someone, anyone, to prove you are lovely attractive, interesting, desirable and sexy, amongst another hundred reasons we currently need to prove we are not worthless. That's just how they have made us feel. Its temporary. Don't sell your soul. You have to believe you are worth so much more. Please give yourself time. There is more time than you ever realise, there is no hurry. If you feel the same long term then its your time to move on. Do it your way but be honest to yourself.
Barbarella1 ( new member #72309) posted at 3:37 AM on Sunday, May 10th, 2020
I had one approx 6 months after dday. In France, vacation with friends and I swear a night of dancing and boom, much younger Brit was dancing and kissing me. It was crazy, helped with my not feeling desirable state. My husband post affair had announced that he always wanted an open relationship, got off on the idea of me having sex with someone else. That happened, as he accidentally viewed a video of it too.
He forgave me, I felt kinda dirty and ashamed however I had a huge ego trip and knew that it really did upset him. Today, we are working so hard towards reconciliation and after 22 years of marriage, are closer than ever.
firefighter01 ( member #74427) posted at 2:31 AM on Wednesday, May 13th, 2020
I had a revenge Emotional affair with a woman. I wish I had not.
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