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Evertrying ( member #60644) posted at 10:07 PM on Tuesday, July 7th, 2020
Our dday was the day before my H birthday and my birthday is day of the AP's and her H's anniversary! Talk about double SHIT days!
BS - 55 on dday
WH - 48 on dday
Dday: 9/1/17
Status: Reconciled
Underserving ( member #72259) posted at 11:26 PM on Tuesday, July 7th, 2020
My b-day and his b-day are both triggers. The last communication they ever had was her sending him a “happy birthday” text at 2 in the morning. I saw he replied, she sent one more, and that was it. His is actually a couple of weeks from now, and it will sting, but not near as bad as my birthday.
His A was definitely hot and heavy during my birthday. The first text he sent that morning was at 6:00 am to her. Didn’t hardly talk to me at all I’m pretty convinced they had sex that day, but he adamantly denies it. Says he can’t pin down exact dates because it was 3 years ago, will be four by the time November is here, but knows he didn’t see her on my birthday. I don’t believe him or trust his memory. Still even if they didn’t, he had hour long phone calls and and texts all day with her.
My anniversary is another. I know he didn’t see her, but the A was still going on, and he more than likely f-Ed her the day after we celebrated it. He also called her at midnight when I had gone to sleep. She had been mad he wasn’t talking to her all day cause he was with me and couldn’t respond without being caught. Saw that from her twitter and phone records. Only holiday I have that isn’t tainted is July 4th. So... sucks.
BW (32)Found out 3 years post end of AD-day 12-9-19In R
Infidelity brings out the cuss in me. I’m not as foul mouthed in real life. ;)
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