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Found out 2 days before my 16th anniversary

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Ariopolis ( member #75786) posted at 1:45 AM on Friday, December 3rd, 2021

He says they kissed a couple times but he told her he didn't want it to go any further. At this point he says it's done and hasn't contacted her nor her him.

Does the screenshot/text you saw confirm this? Has he confirmed this/tried to confirm this at all?

It's good that you are going with him this weekend.

So they went out drinking. I hope you intend to go to each place he went with her and take a good look around. Was she a COW or just a random, or, god forbid, not someone he was set up with?

What is his narrative about her? Just a drinking buddy, someone to talk to, or was she looking for a husband?

I wonder about this because 3.5 months is long enough for someone to start dreaming about her future. In a case like that, she isn't going to go away quietly.

It's a good thing he's going to be home for the holidays.

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Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 5:19 PM on Sunday, December 5th, 2021

Thought so, it feels off to me. If it doesn’t pass your sniff test then it likely isn’t true.

My kids knew before me. I kept believing. I was wrong.

About him not complimenting you on your weight loss, that is ridiculous. Reserved is one thing. Ignorant is another. If he was intimidated, so what, he is a grown man.

How are you feeling about things ?

[This message edited by Tallgirl at 5:19 PM, Sunday, December 5th]

Standing tall

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Cooley2here ( member #62939) posted at 2:44 AM on Tuesday, December 7th, 2021

Unusual for a man in his twenties to abstain from sex. Is his sex drive low? Several reasons for that. Addiction to pornography, low testosterone, being gay. Or he might just not have a strong sex drive. This is a question for the guys. What’s your take on this.

When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Elvis

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