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dblackstar2002 ( member #70704) posted at 3:33 PM on Friday, February 4th, 2022
Yes, But I can understand peoples frustration, When they are tying to tell someone something form their own experience And that person refuses to listen. Sometimes the anger gets the better of us... 
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 3:51 PM on Friday, February 4th, 2022
Rolling
If you still read and if you do come back then don’t hesitate to let us know if we were wrong or if we were right. Despite there being some script that most cases follow we can (and often are) wrong. Maybe your wife is now the ideal wife and your marriage better than ever before. Maybe not. Either way don’t hesitate to let us know, or to ask us for further guidance if we are correct.
If me being wrong has the effect of you being in a happy marriage then I’m willing to eat that hat.
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
ShutterHappy ( member #64318) posted at 12:43 PM on Sunday, February 6th, 2022
I've had trouble in the past just calling to order takeout without having a panic attack. I was never the one to initiate any sort of appointments/calls/whatever.
My identical twins are like that. One has been diagnosed with Asperger. I have a good idea where you are coming from. The one that is still living with me realizes how he is and hates it, but can’t help it.
A lot of newcomers here are afraid to lose "the love of their life", and if things seem to settle, they are happy to let it go.
Don’t think of it as "losing the love of your life to someone else". Think of it as "I may love my spouse but, for my well-being, I can’t stay with her unless she makes drastic changes to become a safe partner"
Me: BH
Divorced, remarried.
I plan on living forever. So far so good
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