YouCanHaveThePettyLiar (original poster new member #87450) posted at 10:23 PM on Sunday, June 28th, 2026
Still cannot help to feel I miss WS, even though WS had put me through so much.
I felt no closure. WS was not transparent about how their thought process work and I ended up doing lots of emotional leaning in work.
Then the WS was claiming they were emotionally exhausted, during just 6 months of reconciliation attempt.
YouCanHaveThePettyLiar (original poster new member #87450) posted at 10:26 PM on Sunday, June 28th, 2026
I hate myself from still feeling something, still feeling the pain, the loss, the betrayal and struggling to move on.
The WS said they won't be able to give me closure etc.
Every time I felt better communication with the WS, then after WS and AP met, everything changes again.
YouCanHaveThePettyLiar (original poster new member #87450) posted at 7:09 PM on Sunday, August 23rd, 2026
All of sudden, I've reach clarity. WS loves and chose the AP. That's it. There isn't anything I could have done differently that would change the course of things.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 7:18 PM on Sunday, August 23rd, 2026
Glad you had that epiphany, as painful as it is.. And honestly, he may not love her. But he DID chose her.
So now you start moving forward and start healing.
Be kind to yourself today. You are strong and you will be okay. (((Hugs)))
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
