Hurtingnconfused posted 6/7/2020 00:37 AM

Having a garage sale to get rid of anything I’m not taking to AZ. My STBXWH 1st wife comes over to shop. We are on good terms NOW after 12 years. She and I talked about how he told me while living w her “he was just sleeping on the couch” and only living with his ex wife for the kids. He i”appears to be very about his kids” on the surface so I bought it, He was divorced, I “duh” believed him. Asked her about it, she laughed and said “of course not!! We were planning on getting remarried!!” I apologized and she stated she’s glad now as I helped her raise his kids the last 12 years and she got away from him. Looking at it as a good thing and I’m “getting away from him”

I think I’m selling the house to a flipper, Should be packed out this time next week. On to new adventures

Hurtingnconfused posted 6/8/2020 19:44 PM

So first IC session. It wasn’t about him, it was about me. How to heal me cuz I keep picking “projects.” How deeply satisfying and refreshing. Came home and cleaned off the porch, the last sign he ever lived here. Finished that and sat on the porch, listened to music, petted my dog. Peaceful, serene, happy. Then I found out I’ve paid 2 months in advance on my mortgage. My daughter found me the perfect job to apply to for the city, working with victims. Life is looking up and it’s only been a week!!

[This message edited by Hurtingnconfused at 7:47 PM, June 8th (Monday)]

Lalagirl posted 6/9/2020 12:51 PM

So glad to hear that you are on a fast track out of infidelity!!