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Update to Christmas Eve D-Day

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Ginny posted 6/18/2020 13:03 PM

Don’t let her see that she is upsetting you. Read up on “gray rock”!

heartbrokeninNC posted 6/18/2020 13:29 PM

Thanks Ginny. Not showing it on the outside but inside its maddening. Will read up on the gray rock technique.

Buffer posted 6/18/2020 19:19 PM

Be that rock!
Buffer

heartbrokeninNC posted 6/19/2020 12:14 PM

I am that rock each and every day. I'm moving on!!! Climbing my way out of infidelity and realizing that I AM THE PRIZE!! Not that beached something that was my STBXWW.

Stinger posted 6/19/2020 12:30 PM

Always nice to excise a toxic person from your life. I hope you enjoy the freedom. It has been great for me.

heartbrokeninNC posted 6/19/2020 13:54 PM

Absolutely looking forward to that day!!! The attorney is currently working on the draft agreement to separate, one step closer!!!

The1stWife posted 6/20/2020 05:31 AM

Can you sue the AP in your state for alienation of affection?

I certainly would do that!

heartbrokeninNC posted 6/20/2020 07:33 AM


Can you sue the AP in your state for alienation of affection?

The1stWife, yes I can sue for Alienation of Affection.

The1stWife posted 6/20/2020 14:42 PM

Is it something you plan to do?

heartbrokeninNC posted 6/20/2020 16:55 PM

I will do this if he interjects himself into the D process or becomes a nuisance. Thinking about the ROI and don't think I could get anything out of him seeing that WW is bankrolling the A. He could claim bankruptcy and I would get nothing in return here or just the satisfaction in knowing he caused his own financial downfall.

steadychevy posted 6/20/2020 17:12 PM

Might be worth it just to show he's a loser. Just an opinion.

Buffer posted 6/20/2020 20:10 PM

Yep, strength, you don’t have to roll it back into the ocean.
Look after yourself, children and setting up that man cave that will be the envy of all.
As I said before, when she is alone, paying child support, no family, she will look in the mirror and say it wasn’t worth it!

You my friend will be the one thing she isn’t “Happy”. With life, family, and yourself.
One day at a time.
Buffer

heartbrokeninNC posted 6/22/2020 07:53 AM

Might be worth it just to show he's a loser. Just an opinion.

I'm definitely keeping it in mind steadychevy but playing that card very close to the chest right now.

Thanks Buffer, I've got the strength but right now it's hard as hell trying not to explode.

With Father's Day yesterday; WW tried to hug with me and I was repulsed. She could not understand why I was moving away. Do I fucking need to remind her why?!!? Was in a pretty good mood up until that point but inside was very upset and depressed but did not show it.

[This message edited by heartbrokeninNC at 7:53 AM, June 22nd (Monday)]

Westway posted 6/22/2020 08:34 AM

With Father's Day yesterday; WW tried to hug with me and I was repulsed. She could not understand why I was moving away. Do I fucking need to remind her why?!!?

It's amazing isn't it?

My STBXWW actually sent me a text yesterday wishing me a happy father's day and telling me she wished she and our girls could all get together at my place to make me dinner and celebrate. What a nut.

heartbrokeninNC posted 6/22/2020 09:17 AM

STBXWW's head is so far up her ass she can't see through the BS!!! It's amazing that she still thinks she did nothing wrong in her feeble mind. The damages that she has done and continues to do are irreparable.

KingofNothing posted 6/22/2020 09:23 AM

With Father's Day yesterday; WW tried to hug with me and I was repulsed. She could not understand why I was moving away. Do I fucking need to remind her why?!!?

The old "let's be friends and civil about this" response. Yeah, I've been there. They never get that maybe they're not quite the person you want to be friends with after adultery has happened. Suddenly, they're not all that special.

I hope you had a decent Father's Day despite that nonsense. You deserve one. I actually had a nice one myself. My son and I smoked ribs and shot the shit in the backyard for hours. My daughter and her boyfriend dropped by with potato salad and strawberry pie (my favorite). At no point did you know who's name come up and we had a fantastic time (she's probably at her b/f at the moment's place with his kids-- I don't really care).

That's the future I hope you have after this. Relax, don't let her bullshit get to you. It's not quite the beginning of the end yet, but it's the end of the beginning.

[This message edited by KingofNothing at 9:25 AM, June 22nd (Monday)]

heartbrokeninNC posted 6/22/2020 10:03 AM

Did not really do much for Father's Day. Ordered in some pizza from the Hut and relaxed on the computer playing games.

I can't wait for the day that I can excise the cancer that is WW. Hopefully soon(TM).

Lalagirl posted 6/22/2020 10:38 AM

I'm proud of you, heartbrokeninNC. Now that you are getting out of this shitshow you will see your life get so much better.

Onward, sir!

Newlifeisgreat posted 6/22/2020 10:50 AM

When does she get the separation paperwork?

Does she know that she isn’t on the new lease?

heartbrokeninNC posted 6/22/2020 11:00 AM

Now that you are getting out of this shitshow

I'm starting to see the light at this end of this tunnel while swimming upstream in a hurricane.

When does she get the separation paperwork?

Attorney is working on the paperwork and was requesting further information on Friday.

Does she know that she isn’t on the new lease?

Not yet

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