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9 years of missing my Dad

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 jrc1963 (original poster member #26531) posted at 4:06 PM on Sunday, June 21st, 2020

Father's Day is hard since my Dad passed away. It's even harder this year because of some life situations that I'm going thru.

I really wish he was here to talk to right now.

I'm just sad.

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 4:12 PM on Sunday, June 21st, 2020

Mine passed nine years ago too. I sympathize. ❤️

Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again

Staying together for the kids

D-day 2010

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 jrc1963 (original poster member #26531) posted at 4:17 PM on Sunday, June 21st, 2020

(((Darkness)))

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 8:07 PM on Sunday, June 21st, 2020

My dad passed away in 1996 and I still thought of calling him today.

((((jrc & Darkness))))

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

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Jehuretired ( member #72293) posted at 12:27 AM on Monday, June 22nd, 2020

My dad also passed away 9 years ago. I have missed him so badly this last awful year. He had a quiet strength that I so wish I could lean on...

((Hugs to all))

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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 6:06 AM on Monday, June 22nd, 2020

Mine's been gone 10 years now. I think of him every day. I get it.

(((jrc)))

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 6:46 AM on Monday, June 22nd, 2020

Mine’s been gone 18 months. We never stop missing them. ❤️

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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newlife03 ( member #56527) posted at 10:08 PM on Tuesday, June 23rd, 2020

August will mark 6 years for me. Father's Day was hard, but I think my birthday is harder because he used to call and sing to me. The anniversary date is always hard as I start remembering everything that led up to his death beginning in July when he got his 2nd round of pneumonia.

Me - 50
Kids 25, 22, 18
1st DDay in 2006, 2nd in 2007
D in 2009
Happily Committed to SO since 2011

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Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 11:44 PM on Tuesday, June 23rd, 2020

I still drive my dad’s old 2003 Ford truck. The only “change” being I rotate my dad’s six Johnny Cash CD’s every now and then. Every time I get into that truck I think of my dad and miss him and mom terribly. But still in a good way and I try to turn the pain into a sense of gratefulness for having had the best parents ever.

"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus

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PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 11:55 PM on Tuesday, June 23rd, 2020

I can’t image. Hugs!

BS Fwh

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Justsomelady ( member #71054) posted at 12:08 AM on Wednesday, June 24th, 2020

I feel the same way. I’m so sorry.

Be responsible for telling the truth. Not managing other people’s reactions to it - Mel Robbins .

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