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Divorce/Separation :
to my peeps who swear and curse

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 caregiver9000 (original poster member #28622) posted at 2:19 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 2:21 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

My "truck driver mouth" is part of what SO thinks is awesome about me. :)

However... The doosh has a disgusting vocabulary and we all know he is a fucking bitch ass liar....

[This message edited by PurpleRose at 8:22 PM, April 10th (Thursday)]

divorced the Dooosh 8/13
*****************************
Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...

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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 2:22 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

son of a bitch who knew?

BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle

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Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 2:26 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

Get the fuck out! So when I tell people I don't give a flying fuck or a rat's ass, or they are full of shit, need to be bitch slapped, and need to take a bath with a fucking hair dryer I am being more honest?? Shhhiiitttt....

fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

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h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 2:26 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

That shit is fuckin' badass!

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 caregiver9000 (original poster member #28622) posted at 2:30 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

I feel more "genuine" since I discovered this "other language." Thankfully, I have a pretty good filter and self control given that I work with teens!!

I am aware that a meme is far from scientifically validated truth, but I decided to accept this at face value!!!

Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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suckstobeme ( member #30853) posted at 2:30 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

Fucking A!

I come from a long line of honest, trustworthy people. When I was a kid, my mother's favorite angry response was "god damned son of a bitch and bastard"! For years, I thought it was just one big long word.

BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

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cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 2:33 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

It is my new hobby!

My favorite is...

crossed arms, double bird while saying "cross fucker"

I think I made that one up!

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

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Tripletrouble ( member #39169) posted at 2:34 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

I am glad to hear this news. My ex hates my potty mouth, which I got from my pure as Christmas snow mother.

40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013
Happily remarried 2018
Time is a great healer but a terrible beautician.

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ruinedandbroken ( member #29250) posted at 3:31 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

No way! Shut the fuck up!

“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 8&11
Married 14 yrs Together 21

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cayc ( member #21964) posted at 3:32 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

Just more proof that when I say that my xWH is a "low class white trash motherfucking asshole who deserves to be taken out back and shot" I'm right!

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 3:33 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

Well, fuck me 9 ways till Sunday!

(Just kidding; I already knew this shit )

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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Oftencheatedon ( member #41268) posted at 3:52 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

I only swear on anonymous internet boards as I can't in real life for professional reasons.

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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 4:15 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

Fuck.Yes.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 4:24 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

So, when I call my STBX a lying, cheating c*** stuffer .. I am being totally honest ... already knew that!! lol

Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 4:44 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

El es un hijo de rechingada madre, pinche culo, cabron baboso, putisimo!

Hey, it just sounds better in Spanish!

Gosh, I never used to cuss so much.

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014

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Softcentre ( member #39166) posted at 8:04 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

I only swear on anonymous internet boards as I can't in real life for professional reasons.

This. But also much, much, swearing in my head since dday

ETA:

Although I can't say it out loud, I'm not sure that "manipulative fucker" is actually swearing...when it's the truth

[This message edited by Softcentre at 2:06 AM, April 11th, 2014 (Friday)]

Me: BW
Him: XWH
2 Children

Finally reached indifference & looking forward to my new beginning

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Vulcanized ( member #33523) posted at 8:06 AM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

Heh, heh.

True in my case. My sack of shit, jive ass, lazy-eyed tranny fucking XH, not so much.

Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long

Now:-----> Everything is as it should be

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cmego ( member #30346) posted at 12:52 PM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

My ex hated my "potty mouth".

As my BFF says, "That Fucker."

I felt really bad that, for the first time, I dropped the "f-bomb" around my kids last week. Stress….too much stress…

We just talk about it, that those words are out there and we try not to use them.

me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced

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Lola2kids ( member #32789) posted at 1:32 PM on Friday, April 11th, 2014

DA said to me once (only once)...

"you never used to be so vulgar."

No shit Sherlock was my response.

BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

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