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 purplejacket4 (original poster member #34262) posted at 6:22 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

Tomorrow I commence with babysitting SIX nieces and nephews for five days: 14, 11, 6, 4, 3 and 6 months.

I'll need all your thoughts and good wishes!

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 6:25 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

WOW.

I like kids but goodness! That's a big range! For a long time!

I have faith in you though.

Sit. Feast on your life.

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DixieD ( member #33457) posted at 6:27 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

You are very brave. May the force be with you. Good luck!

Growing forward

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JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 6:29 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

You are a brave, brave, brave woman.

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metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 6:36 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

Oh please tell me the lab will be around to add to the chaos. This I gotta see.

Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 6:46 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

PJ, you may be a highly capable physician, but this may be beyond your skills.....

I'll send my best wishes. <<Shudder>>

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 6:52 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

Praying, sending mojo, strength, and fingers crossed time flies.

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MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 6:59 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

oh geez! sending prayers, strength, and some hard liquor!!

44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 7:00 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

I'll be drinking my dinner for you

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 7:03 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

Yikes! I get anxiety when we're going to have our 6 yo niece and 3 yo nephew for the weekend! You're a very, very brave woman!

Good luck!

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 7:13 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

Ack! You are in my thoughts and prayers

Have lots of fun and fill them up with sugar right before you send them home. You will never be asked to sit again

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:13 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

Wow! Hopefully you can recruit the 14 and 11 y/o as part of the authoritah squad!

Sending mojo.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 7:14 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

Wow Dr PJ. If there's anyone that can do it, it's you.

One word of advice, save all that hard liquor that everyone is sending your way for afterwards. You are going to need your wits about you.

"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

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imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 7:35 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

YAY!!!!

Camp purplejacket!

Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 7:46 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

I'm confident you will ALL have a blast. And hopefully, lots of naps.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 8:51 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

Whatever did you do to deserve this? Or the parents do to earn this? Must have been big...

Prayers started...

Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.

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unfound ( member #12802) posted at 9:02 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

dr pj, dr pj.. we knew her well.

((purplejacket))

I vote for renting a bouncy house for the week. loads of fun, wears them out (minus the wee one), and can be used as a hideout when you run out of benydryl* .

*kidding! but the bottle CAN be used to jam under a door to keep them out, or in... depending on your needs

ka-mai
*************
Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."

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CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 9:22 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

You are a very brave woman.

Or a complete nutter!!!

If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

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 purplejacket4 (original poster member #34262) posted at 9:45 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

It's a gift I'm giving to sis and BIL for their 20 anniversary. Sigh. I'm going up to Seattle to do this.

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 9:47 PM on Wednesday, July 16th, 2014

You can do this... really!! Besides the older ones can help with the younger ones...

Just watch a few episodes of the Duggers (19 Kids and Counting) on TLC for some pointers!!

If I can herd cats (Teenagers with behavior and emotional problems) all day every day... you can do this!! Piece of cake! *maybe give them lots of cake w/mild sedatives baked in too*

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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